After Her Friend Called Her Lazy, She Snapped Back And Said That Just Because Their Husband Didn’t Spoil Them During Their Pregnancy Doesn’t Mean Her Own Husband Can’t
This 28-year-old woman is currently five months pregnant with triplets. So, she knows this will be her first and last pregnancy.
And since she is currently carrying three babies, the pregnancy has been seriously difficult. Her morning sickness is always horrible, and her blood pressure is consistently high. Plus, her anemia and diabetes have come back.
Thankfully, though, her 30-year-old husband has been her rock throughout it all. He apparently treats her like a queen and never says no whenever she wants something.
On top of that, he enjoys spoiling her and can anticipate her needs before she even says anything.
“If it was up to him, I would be in bed all day and with 1,000 servants,” she said.
Just a few weeks ago, though, she decided to invite her best friend over for a tea tasting– because, apparently, her aunt had sent her some teas from home, and she wanted to try them out.
Her best friend wound up asking if she could invite another woman as well, though. And at the time, she was fine with that.
She had met the woman and her husband a couple of times before and thought they were nice. The wife was reportedly really sweet, and together, the couple had a 7-month-old baby.
So anyway, the group of girls wound up going over to her house. And since she was hosting, she started doing everything.
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It is important to note that her best friend and the other woman did offer to help her out. But, she claimed to have declined their offer and even banned them from the kitchen.
Instead, she just kept running back and forth to the kitchen by herself– refilling tea and getting treats.
Eventually, though, all of the running around started to catch up with her. And it was around that same time that her husband returned home.
As soon as he saw her huffing and puffing, her husband actually dropped everything he was doing to check on her and help her out.
He was apparently pretty frantic and worried– leading her to a special chair in their living room to sit down.
In fact, her husband was so focused on her that he didn’t even address the guests in the living room. So, she recalled how the women started staring and giggling about it– which she found a bit embarrassing.
Regardless, her husband just kept catering to her. He first ran and grabbed everything to make her comfortable before setting the items next to her. Afterward, he started to continue everything she was doing– refilling teas and preparing treats.
“I tried to stop him, but he had none of it,” she recalled. “The girls were teasing and telling me I’m lucky, and I was hoping he relaxed.”
Her husband, though, didn’t see any problem with taking over the hosting responsibilities. Rather, he just kept telling her to relax and claiming that she should not have to even lift a finger.
But honestly, she was a bit frustrated and still tried to help out. Nonetheless, her husband just kept encouraging her to rest every single time.
And as this continued, she noticed the woman her best friend brought getting increasingly bitter. In fact, the woman’s facial expression went from sweet to totally sour. Then, the woman wound up snapping at her.
“I don’t get why he’s spoiling you so much. This is too much. My husband never did this for me,” the woman said.
“Only spoiled and lazy people act like this. Plus, you have guests. Have some decorum; the PDA is gross.”
She was totally taken aback by that comment, too. Obviously, she was not lazy because she had been running around all morning while five months pregnant. On top of that, she had no clue what PDA the woman was talking about.
So, since she was already getting frustrated, she ended up snapping right back at the woman.
“Just because your husband didn’t spoil your bitter self doesn’t mean my husband can’t spoil my apparently ‘lazy’ self. Maybe you don’t deserve it,” she told the woman.
“And I’ve been busting my butt all morning, and you call me freaking lazy?”
After she said all of that, the woman immediately burst into tears and ran out of the room. And even though she was still fuming, her best friend gave her a look as if she had gone too far.
Now, she claimed that her other friends told her she was in the right. However, her best friend later revealed that the woman’s husband was never as invested in the woman’s pregnancy as he should have been. And that’s why her best friend told her that she should have just let the situation go.
So, ever since then, she’s been left wondering whether calling out the woman at the tea tasting was a really jerky move.
Can you understand why that woman might have felt jealous? At the same time, was it right for the woman to accuse her of being lazy and having “no decorum” in her own home? If you had been in her shoes, would you have snapped back also?
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