She Doesn’t Want To Allow Her Brother To Bring His Girlfriend To Her Wedding After She Overheard Him Telling Her Fiancé Stories About How Great This Girl Is In Bed
It’s a shame when you aren’t a big fan of someone your sibling ends up dating. One woman had a bad first impression of her brother’s new girlfriend and now doesn’t want her to be his plus-one at her wedding.
She’s 27 years old and is due to marry her fiancé, Alex, this summer. She’s very close with her 31-year-old brother named Matthew. Alex and Matthew also have a good relationship, so Matthew will be the best man in their wedding.
Matthew helped organize Alex’s bachelor party trip and surprisingly met a girl there named Marla, who he really liked.
A few weeks later, Marla flew across the country to their city to visit and fell in love with her brother. They decided to date and pursue a long-distance relationship.
She was surprised at how quickly her brother fell for Marla but tried to keep an open mind, especially since she and Alex went through a long-distance period for a while too.
Matthew asked her if he could bring Marla as his date to her rehearsal dinner and wedding reception, and she said yes, although she thought it was a bit early in their relationship for her to meet their family.
However, her openness towards Marla changed when she overheard a conversation between Matthew and Alex that she didn’t like.
Matthew began telling Alex some dirty and inappropriate things about Marla, and she became insecure as she heard Alex reacting to the stories enthusiastically.
“I pretended I didn’t hear it, but I was extremely triggered because Alex seemed a little too interested, and I was a little disgusted that my brother would discuss his intimacy like that,” she explained.
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A few days later, while she was still processing the conversation she had heard, Marla flew into town to meet everybody. She thought Marla wasn’t her brother’s usual type but that she was nice and pretty. However, she couldn’t bring herself to be very nice towards Marla because she was still upset over what she heard. Matthew noticed her cold behavior and later confronted her with an angry text message.
“I called him and told him the truth about why I was upset and didn’t want his girlfriend at the wedding,” she said.
“I did say some explicit things and called Marla names, which I do regret, and told my brother that he wasn’t in love; he was just in lust.”
Alex overheard her conversation and tried to reason with her. He apologized for participating in the dirty discussion about Marla and tried to convince her to let Matthew bring her to the wedding.
Once her parents heard what happened, they also supported Matthew and told her she should let Marla attend the wedding because he really likes her. As far as she knows, Marla isn’t aware of what happened and why she’s been angry. On the other hand, she feels she shouldn’t have to invite someone she hardly knows to her wedding events because her brother is freaking out.
“It is my wedding, not his,” she added. “He’s threatening not [to come] to the wedding if I don’t let it go.”
Was she being too judgmental of Marla, or should she be allowed to exclude her from the wedding?
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