She Just Found Out That Her Best Friend Has Been Carrying On A Secret Relationship With Her Husband, And Every Time She Got Into A Fight With Him, Her Best Friend Has Been Pushing Him To Leave Her
This 37-year-old woman has a 34-year-old best friend that she has been close with for 15 years now.
When you know somebody that long, it’s hard to imagine they could keep any kind of secret from you.
However, she just learned that her best friend has been carrying on a secret friendship with her 33-year-old husband, whom she has been married to for 8 years.
This all began 2 years back when her best friend came to live with her and her husband. Her best friend is the kind of person who has spent her whole adult life couch surfing.
During the time her best friend spent living under her roof, she would turn to her to vent any time she got into a disagreement with her husband.
“She would never take my side but rather run off to tell him everything I said and try to find parts of the story I embellished and then call me dishonest,” she explained.
“I told her I did not like what she was doing. She moved out after a few months, and I asked her to stop messaging my husband. She said okay.”
Somewhat recently, her sister, who also happens to be close to her best friend, reached out to inform her that her best friend is anything but a friend to her.
Apparently, her sister said that her best friend has been secretly speaking to her husband behind her back.
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Additionally, her best friend won’t stop speaking with him and goes so far as to push him to leave her any time they do get into an argument.
“I don’t mind my husband talking to her after an argument,” she said. “I talk to his best friend sometimes.”
“It helps us get perspective. But encouraging him to leave me is not what I would think a friend would do. But the last argument we had, I went to her to vent. She messaged my husband on Snap Chat and told him to leave me. My husband is not attracted to her at all.”
“She is not his type. But she told my sister that my husband has a crush on her, and she won’t stop talking to him. She also told my sister she thought I wouldn’t mind someone talking to my husband since 15 years ago, I dated for one month a guy who she liked. She said she only started messaging him because she doesn’t like being told what to do.”
Her husband found out about what her best friend said, and he doesn’t believe he can continue a friendship with her at all.
His intentions with her best friend were very pure, and he just wanted to be friends with her. As for her best friend, her intentions were clearly nefarious.
And now she’s starting to think she is in the same boat; that she can no longer keep this friendship at all. The problem is she does not have a ton of friends in her life.
“If this was your friend, would you give her a second chance or cut her out of your life for good?” she wondered.
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