Everyone has a crazy date story these days. Some of them are so shocking that it makes you lose the desire to want to be in the dating world ever again!
TikTok user @bonecrusher1020 shares the story of the worst date that he has ever had.
He had recently gotten out of college and was working full time, and was still living in the small college town. Since most of his friends had already moved away, he got pretty bored and decided to download some dating apps in an effort to meet new people.
He ended up matching with a girl who he didn’t really consider his typical type but was cute, and they had a nice conversation together. However, their work schedules were making it difficult to plan a time to meet up. One day, she had a day off and offered to meet up with him after his shift. He agreed and told her to pick a time and a place to meet up at.
The place that she chose to meet up at was not something that he would have chosen as a good first date spot, but he went along with it. As he pulls up to the dive bar, he sees a woman getting out of her car that looks similar to his match, but he can’t tell if it’s really her.
“It was the same person, but there was probably a solid decade in between the photos used on the app and the person standing in front of me and probably a solid hundred-pound weight difference of gain,” he described.
He immediately felt that she was very deceptive and was clearly in her 30s, while he was only in his early 20s at the time. Still, he went along with it, still wanting to give the woman a chance. As they enter the dive bar together, he soon realizes that she is friends with the bartender, and before he knows it, she introduces him to her friend as his boyfriend! Quickly, the red flags started flying.
As they get their drinks, he wonders if he should have gone through with this date. He mistakenly mentioned to her that he had plans in 3 hours, but he wanted to leave within the first 10 minutes. He decided to tough it out and hope that the 3 hours went by fast.
The conversation between the pair was not very good, and soon she revealed that she had a 9-year-old son and was still living with her drug-addict of a husband and his parents. He was shocked by all of this information that his date was dumping on him!
“So, in the 2 weeks of talking before we met, I had not been informed of any of this. So immediately, more red flags. I’m thinking there’s no way…. there’s going to be a second date,” he said.
As the conversation continued, he grew more and more uncomfortable with the topics being discussed, as well as being two of the few people that were in the bar at that time. He felt pretty trapped in this situation and suggested that they go to a nearby park for a walk.
Soon after they arrive at the park, he realizes that his date is crying! He tries to ask her what’s wrong, but she brushes it off until 5 minutes later when the crying starts getting stronger, and she is clearly overwhelmed with emotion.
At this point, he tells her that clearly there is something going on, that it’s really none of his business, and suggests that they go ahead and part ways.
However, when he returned home, he realized that he had received several texts from her. In these messages, she explained to him her reasoning for being so emotional at the end of their date was that she realized that he was her soulmate!
She even suggests that he can move into her in-law’s guest room, get to know her son, and when everyone is ready, he can switch rooms with her ex-husband.
“Needless to say, just blocked the number,” he said. “This is not worth it.”
After this crazy date of his, he went a couple of weeks without really engaging much on dating apps. Until he matched with a new girl on Tinder, they had great conversations, and they had a lot of things in common with each other.
He becomes excited about this new possibility, and they set up a day and time to meet up. The night before they were scheduled to meet, she sent him an interesting message.
She explained that there was something that he should know before the meet-up the following day but that it could only be explained with a photo. Before he knew it, he received a selfie from the girl he had gone on a date with a few weeks prior!
She had been catfishing him using someone else’s photos so that she could reconnect with him after he had blocked her.
After that, he decided to delete all of his dating apps until he moved away from the area, making sure that the distance settings were made so that they could never match again!
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