She’s Dating The Guy Her Best Friend Had A Crush On Years Ago, And When Her Best Friend Found Out, She Called Her Terrible Names
For nearly five years, this 18-year-old girl and her friend M, 19, have been close friends.
Three years ago, M met a guy, P, and she immediately became infatuated with him.
“She was absolutely smitten. Maybe even obsessed,” she said.
From the moment M met P, 19, he was the only thing M wanted to talk about, and she would get upset if he didn’t text her back right away.
Since she’s always been the type of person who wanted to make everyone else around her happy, she listened when M ranted about P not responding to her messages, and she provided her thoughts when M asked her for insight.
On one occasion, when she was hanging out at M’s place, M asked if it was okay if she called P. She told her that it was fine, so M called him, and they were on the phone for a bit.
“A few minutes in, P noticed someone else, me, was there and included me in the call, and we all started talking. It was rather nice. After that call, P asked M if she could give me his socials. Begrudgingly, she did, and kind of threatened me not to start anything with him,” she explained.
Not long after that, she and P started talking on a regular basis and got along well from the very beginning. It turned out that they had a lot of the same interests, and they’d spent hours talking every day. However, she made sure to keep the relationship with P completely platonic since M requested her to do so, and she didn’t want to upset M or damage their friendship.
Several months later, school started up again, and they were all understandably busy studying. P stopped communicating with both her and M. Leading up to P distancing himself, M tried to keep the conversation going, but one day, P told her that he only liked her as a friend. M makes it quite clear when she has feelings for someone, so P could tell that she liked him.
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Then, in November of last year, P reached out to her and said he was sorry that he stopped talking to her, but she hadn’t been upset when she no longer heard from him because she’d been so busy with school at the time.
From then on, she and P talked every day just like they did before. M hasn’t spoken to P since he told her he wasn’t interested in her romantically and stopped communicating with her.
“We texted and called almost every single day (he’s attending college in another country), and we never let that stop us. Eventually, in April 2023, he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said yes! I was really happy, and I giggle even when I just think about it,” she shared.
Later, M learned that she was dating P, and she was very upset despite the fact that she was already in a relationship. M started hurling horrible names at her and disparaged her. M told her she was a jerk to get into a relationship with P in the first place, and she demanded that she break up with him.
Of course, she told M that she wouldn’t do that. She truly likes P, so she doesn’t want to end a wonderful and healthy relationship with him due to her friend’s bitterness.
In her opinion, M had an opportunity to date P in 2020, but he rejected her, so she doesn’t think M has the right to be angry that she’s dating him now, three years later.
Do you think she was wrong to start a relationship with her best friend’s crush?
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