She Left Her Own Dinner Party After Another Girl Sat On Her Husband’s Lap, But Her Husband Just Called Her Insecure
When your spouse has a good friend of the opposite gender, they need to realize how important it is to have solid boundaries that should never be crossed.
One woman recently left her own dinner party after her husband’s childhood friend, a young woman, sat on his lap after trying to steal his attention all night.
She and her husband, Jake, have been married for three years. Jake is still close to his childhood best friend and his friend’s 18-year-old sister, Cindy.
Growing up, Cindy was like a little sister to Jake, and when she started dating him, she became like a sister to her too. In fact, when she and Jake got married, she made Cindy one of her bridesmaids.
After getting married, she and Jake moved away from his friend and Cindy, so they didn’t get to visit often.
However, their entire dynamic changed when Jake’s friend and Cindy visited and stayed in their home recently.
Off the bat, Cindy started making uncomfortable comments about how “hot” Jake had gotten.
“Throughout their stay, Cindy would just ignore my presence and [get] way too close with Jake,” she explained.
“I told Jake that it was looking a bit inappropriate and [asked him] to ask Cindy to tone it down, but he said that C is just a bit childish and [acted] that way with everybody. Well, on their last day, we decided to host a dinner party for everybody.”
Jacob Lund – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
“During the party, I was with Jake when Cindy came [over] and told me, ‘I need to steal your husband for a while. ‘Before I could say something, she grabbed Jake’s hand and took him [to play] games. I ignored it since it was their last day, but then, throughout the dinner, she was getting way too close to Jake and would just drag him away whenever I was around.”
Then, everything became too much for her when everyone sat down for dinner, and Jake and Cindy were the last two seated.
For a moment, Cindy didn’t see a seat, so she took it as an opportunity to ‘jokingly’ sit on Jake’s lap. Jake tried to laugh off the situation, telling Cindy she was acting like a kid before Cindy started giggling and finally sat at another seat.
“I was so angry with the disrespect and with the fact that Jake was so cool with it, but I didn’t wanna say anything bad, so I excused myself, took my car, and went out,” she recalled.
“About an hour later, Jake called me to ask where I was. I told him I was going to my friend’s house and I would come after Cindy had left. I know what I did was terrible, but I was so angry at that time that if I had stayed there any longer, I would have probably started fighting or crying. I came the next day, and Cindy and her family had left.”
In the following days, she and Jake argued back and forth, with her believing Cindy was acting inappropriately and he was okay with it.
On the other hand, Jake believes she overreacted and continued telling her Cindy acted that way with everyone.
Cindy texted her to apologize for her behavior and said she’d be better moving forward, but she told Jake she didn’t want Cindy back in her house again despite that.
This made Jake mad, and he spent the night at his parents’ house.
Is she wrong to not allow Cindy in her house again, or are her feelings justified?
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