She Lost Her Marriage In One Argument And Saw Her Husband Move Out Through Her Doorbell Camera

After just one argument, TikToker @ohthatstra lost her marriage. It was bizarre to think that one argument could topple everything they had built together for years.

"I didn't see any major signs," she said. "There were no big arguments, big fallouts before. We had only been together for three years, but just with one argument, like even the kids were like, 'What happened?'"

Her ex is an aspiring singer, and apparently, he has been writing songs that are obviously about her and their relationship. Since he's blasting their business to the world, she decided to share her side of the story publicly, too.

Around August, she noticed that she wasn't feeling like herself. She talked to her husband about it, saying that she didn't feel covered spiritually, financially, emotionally, or physically.

He was dismissive of her feelings and didn't understand her point. She then went on to give examples for each category.

"I don't feel covered physically because I'm not protected," she said.

"You walk in front of me all the time. You walk so far ahead of me that even when the baby is yelling, "Daddy, wait!" I'm trying to catch up with you, and you can't even hear her. That's how far ahead you are. You're so far ahead that people at church greeted us separately because that's how far ahead you walk."

Additionally, she often went to bed alone and woke up alone because he was always out with his friends or upstairs smoking or playing a game.

She doesn't feel covered spiritually because he does not pray over her. As for their finances, he has been unemployed three times in three years, and the stress has been taking a toll on her.

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Due to a chronic health condition, she took off work for about a year. She had other sources of income and had set aside money for home repairs and two other investment properties, so even though she wasn't working, she was able to cover her half of the bills.

However, their savings account was always empty because he kept taking out money she was putting in. He claimed her kids as his own, but when it came to stuff like paying her daughter's tuition, he didn't contribute one penny.

When the plumbing got messed up in her rental property, she paid for repairs herself.

It got to the point where she decided to go back to work, even though she was still sick, because there was no provider in the home.

When her health condition flares up, it drains all her energy, and she can hardly get out of bed. But she had no choice except to push through it and work.

He accused her of lying and tried to bring other people into the argument because deep down, he knew he couldn't win it on his own.

Eventually, they went to see a marriage counselor/pastor, who told them that her feelings were valid. But her now ex wanted to stop seeing the counselor because he did not agree with what he was saying.

So then, her kids suggested family counseling. But anytime someone told him that he was in the wrong, he refused to listen. The only person he could find to agree with him was his mother, and that's exactly who he ran into when the relationship fell apart.

He moved out of the house while she was at work and went to live with his mother. The only reason she found out was because she saw the moving truck on the doorbell camera.

He stopped coming around because he claimed he would get really bad anxiety from seeing the kids. To this day, he's still trying to get his music career off the ground and never has any money.