There is something ghoulish about a man who doesn’t even know the gender of his own four-year-old child but feels entitled to ask for her bone marrow.
This 40-year-old woman is a single mom, and she has a daughter who is four. Her baby daddy abandoned her while she was two weeks pregnant and instantly moved into her best friend’s house to date her.
She was clueless as this all went down, as her boyfriend and best friend kept this one big secret from her for weeks on end. She was having a tough time with something called hyperemesis gravidarum, which is a horrible version of vomiting and nausea that can lead to dehydration and extreme weight loss.
She pleaded with her boyfriend to help her out as she couldn’t leave her house, and she struggled with sleeping, drinking, and eating.
She was hospitalized for a couple of weeks and came close to dying, and still, her ex wouldn’t come to her aid because he was too busy hooking up with her best friend.
“I discovered this when I was in hospital, as the authorities searched him up, and that’s how I discovered he was living with my former best friend,” she explained.
“Due to my severe shock, they had to keep me in hospital longer as there were concerns for both my welfare and health. My former best friend also knew I was pregnant and struggling. She also refused to help me.”
“Throughout my pregnancy, I repeatedly tried to involve him with the pregnancy, but he refused all my attempts (more than 10). So I stopped trying and got through my entire pregnancy on my own, plus paid for everything. It was super expensive.”
She had to spend over $50,000, and she’s not rich at all, so she was forced to move home with her mom and dad in order to make ends meet.
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As for her baby daddy, he made twice her salary and had a lot of money, so he was able to give her financial assistance; he just refused.
She has been able to rebuild, and today she’s very successful and proud to provide herself and her daughter a great life. Her baby daddy never met their daughter, and he doesn’t give her child support.
“Well, turns out he has a 3-year-old daughter with my former friend. The 3-year-old is sick with cancer. He suddenly called me, and asked if they could attempt to do bone marrow testing on my child due to the fact [that] there’s a high likelihood it could be a match,” she added.
“He didn’t even know if I had a son or daughter, and asked me this question. I simply said in the coldest possible way, ‘No, absolutely not,’ and hung up and blocked his number.”
“…The way I see it, both my former best friend and ex partner, both did not care at all during my pregnancy, even though I could have died. They had zero remorse, zero guilt for betraying me in the worst possible way. They have had zero involvement in my life or my daughter’s life.”
She doesn’t see why she should make her daughter go through a serious surgical procedure in order to help people who don’t care about her in the least.
Wow, so her ex is only interested in their little girl now that she can save the life of his second kid? That’s terrible, so I think she’s doing the right thing in keeping him far away from their daughter.
Do you think she’s a jerk? What kind of nerve does it take to ask for a surgical procedure from a kid you’ve never bought a single diaper for?
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