One Thursday, TikToker @tommitay hosted her best friend, her husband, and their four kids at her house. They left on a Sunday. But throughout the visit, something felt off.
During the entire trip, her best friend barely interacted with anyone. She stayed in the guest room, texting someone. She was glued to her phone and wouldn’t put it down.
Of course, @tommitay’s feelings were hurt by this. After all, when close friends visit each other, most people expect to spend some quality time together.
A few days later, her behavior made sense. The following Wednesday, her best friend’s husband reported that he had found text messages on her phone to another man she met on TikTok. He kicked her out for the night because he didn’t want to fight with her.
“He’s in the military and doesn’t want anything to do with it because he knows that if something goes wrong, she could really screw up his security clearance,” said @tommitay. “He does all of these precautionary steps before he even confronts her.”
After leaving and telling police she was terrified for her life, her best friend drove 19 hours to Oklahoma to meet up with a man. She also posted a video on TikTok about how her husband kicked her out because she got her nose pierced.
Then, she blocked everyone on TikTok and accused her husband of interfering with her ability to make money online.
When @tommitay confronted her best friend about being in Oklahoma, she denied it at first. She later defended herself by saying that her kids have always been her priority and her husband was often away for work, so it was finally her turn to live her best life.
But that explanation did not sit well with @tommitay. She pointed out that traveling for military work was very different from leaving your kids for weeks on end to hang out with another man while actively carrying on an affair.
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The friendship is now over. She is no longer talking to her ex-best friend because she abandoned her kids. Instead of taking accountability for her actions, her ex-best friend is publicly painting herself as the victim.
“She was on TikTok telling people that he kicked her out because of her nose ring and she’s scared for her life, but really, she was having an affair, and that’s why he kicked her out,” said @tommitay.
Currently, her ex-best friend is mad because she was recently served with papers to start the separation process. Her new boyfriend has been posting pictures online of them kissing. There is also clearly a ring on his own finger, suggesting that there may be another marriage unraveling in the middle of all this chaos.
By Emily Chan
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