Her Fiancé Has Not Worked In Months, Yet He Just Spent $1,500 On A Woman
A 24-year-old girl and her 25-year-old fiancé have been with one another for almost 2 years now, and they currently own a home and share their money.
Back in May, her fiancé completed his Master’s degree and was intending to become a mental health counselor.
Well, it takes quite a while to obtain a license to practice, so her fiancé then wasn’t really working at all.
So, her fiancé was working another job as he waited for his license to come in, but back in August, he decided to just quit.
“I have been working 60-70 hour weeks to support us through my low-paying jobs,” she explained.
“I am also a student, but I had to drop my classes very early in the semester because we could no longer afford them due to my partner not working. He refused to get a job that was not in his field for these past few months.”
“However, he just got a job making an insane amount of money as a warehouse manager. I was incredibly happy about this and thought I would finally be able to go to school.”
Her fiancé then told her that he would not pay for anything crazy on his credit card now that he would be making excellent money, as he has a tendency to splash out on things while she prefers to save her money.
Another thing worth mentioning is that her fiancé recently started a counseling business along with a woman named Jane, who her fiancé met in his Master’s program.
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Her fiancé texts Jane pretty much every single day, and some days he and Jane talk several times throughout the day.
She knows that her fiancé and Jane discuss everything from politics to Jane’s abusive relationships she’s had in the past, and her fiancé also confided in Jane that he’s upset he’s being forced to get a job.
How does she know this? Because her fiancé did show her some of the texts between him and Jane after she got suspicious of their relationship.
She did not see any texts that made her believe her fiancé’s relationship with Jane is physical, but she still has a problem with Jane.
“For months, he has gushed about her to me nearly every day, saying how smart, resilient, and hard-working she is,” she said.
“His warehouse job gave him a $15,000 sign-on bonus, but he will not get it until mid-November. Using this as justification, he sent Jane $1,500 to pay for a continuing education class that she wanted to take from his credit card.”
“He did this behind my back. He also almost sent another friend $4,000, also behind my back and without talking to me. I feel incredibly betrayed that he sent so much money, more than the cost of MY classes that I had to drop because he wouldn’t work, to a woman that he talks to more than me and did behind my back.”
When she found out about the money that her fiancé sent to Jane, he swore he wouldn’t put any more money on his credit card, as this is adding to their credit card debt.
She’s upset that her fiancé is trying to make it seem that she’s crazy for being so upset about him spending money on Jane, but the reality is, the money that he spent on Jane and his friend amounts to more than she makes in a whole month at her jobs.
“He swears that there is no emotional aspect to this and that I am insane for feeling like this is close to infidelity (at least financial infidelity but also close to emotional infidelity), but I feel incredibly betrayed,” she continued.
“He is furious at me for being angry about this and has offered no real apology. I am so lost and don’t know what to do.”
Do you think there’s more to her fiancé’s relationship with Jane than he’s admitting to?
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