She Just Found Out That Her Gay Best Friend Has Been Lying To His Family By Saying He’s The Father Of Her Child Even Though He’s Not

Vasyl - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Vasyl - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 26-year-old woman has a 30-year-old gay best friend that she has been close to for quite some time.

2 years ago when she got pregnant, her best friend jumped in to be her child’s God Father. She instantly said yes to him because they have had such a wonderful friendship.

When her baby arrived, she then sent milestone photos and holiday photos to her loved ones, but she has never felt at ease sharing photos of her now 2-year-old on social media.

Speaking of social media; she has always know her best friend had a Facebook profile, but she was never friends with him on there.

Every time she brought up connecting with him on Facebook, he would brush away he request and maintain that he had some odd things on there that she would not want to see. She always figured it was a bizarre excuse, but she let it go and never prodded.

Anyway, not too long ago, she ended up losing her home due to financial reasons, and her best friend allowed her and her child to move in with him until she could get a little more money together.

Her best friend let her use his laptop to apply for different jobs, and one day it dawned on her to check out his Facebook profile that he had been so secretive about since she figured he was logged into it.

Well, she was right, he was logged in and she went straight to his photos to poke around, and she was shocked to find several photos of her and her child.

“What was even more alarming is that he was claiming to be my child’s father,” she explained. “From the very first day that my child was born. He even posted a birth announcement!”

Vasyl – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

“His mom and family have been commenting under pictures of my kid calling my child their “grand baby” and family member. Which makes sense as to why every birthday and Christmas his mom has been sending my child gifts. I thought she was just being thoughtful. But she is under the assumption that she’s a Grandmother. I’ve never personally met her or any of his relatives. He’s also been posting fabricated statuses about us “coparenting”. There’s just so much more.”

She was shocked and horrified to find out that her best friend had been using photos of her and her child to make everyone believe that he was the father of her child and in a relationship with her too.

It honestly made her sick to realize all of this, and she reached out to a different friend of hers to fill her in on the situation. She ended up sending several screenshots of her best friend’s Facebook activity to this other friend, and her other friend was completely taken aback.

Her friend thinks her best friend is only using her and her child as a cover story, since his family is not aware that he’s really gay. She was in turn surprised to learn that her best friend never came out of the closet because she didn’t think he hid it from anyone.

“But then again, I’m not sure how his personality is around his family because I never met them,” she said.

“So anyways, yes I’m very disturbed. This entire time I thought I was protecting my child’s privacy from social media when this “friend” has posted every single photo I’ve sent to family and close friends for the past 2 years claiming to be their Dad.”

What do you think she should do? Confront her best friend?

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