A Guy Suggested That They Go Back To His House To Make Pancakes For Dinner On Their First Date, And Then He Wanted To Go Through Her Phone
Have you ever had anyone ask to look through your phone? Whether it be a friend or romantic partner, it can feel like an invasive question, depending on how well you know the person.
TikTok creator Ariel (@arieldavies) shares one of her worst date experiences, where looking through each other’s phones became a big topic.
Ariel agrees to go get some frozen yogurt with a guy that she matched with, mostly excited about getting some delicious froyo. The night, however, did not turn out as she expected.
This guy picks Ariel up, and as they are sitting in his car, he mentions how he has been working all day and hasn’t really had much real food to eat.
She realizes she’s actually pretty hungry, too, so the pair decide on getting dinner and dessert together instead of their original plan.
They spend some time brainstorming some restaurant ideas and looking online for what is near them, but after a while, he suggests that they should just cook dinner instead. Ariel isn’t really comfortable or fond of this idea of his.
She told him that she didn’t have much food at her place and that her housemate would be there, but he suggested that they could just cook at his place instead. Despite her hints of not wanting to, her date was pretty insistent on the idea.
“At this point, I really should have just gotten out of the car…but I do this every time. I just feel like it’s going to be awkward if I’m ‘rude’…I should have just got out of the car,” says Ariel.
He ends up wanting to make pancakes for dinner, which leaves Ariel thinking, “Are you literally twelve years old?”
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Pancakes for dinner are definitely a vibe, but for a guy who was so insistent on him and his date cooking dinner for the said date, instead of going out to a nice restaurant, you would think he would pick something a bit more impressive.
That evening while they are hanging still at his place, he gets a message from a friend asking for dating advice and how he should approach DMing a girl that he likes.
Ariel asks her date what he would do if he were in his friend’s shoes, and after replying with a pretty basic answer, he asks Ariel what her advice would be.
She explained that she thinks it’s really attractive if a guy just asks her availability on the weekend and essentially it up front with a plan for them being up. Picking a time and place and getting to the point would stand out in this girl’s DM’s.
Ariel’s date disagreed with her advice and said that Ariel’s DM’s would be different from this girl’s because her Instagram looks different from hers.
Ariel was confused because she felt like she had a normal Instagram but thought that maybe her photos looked different from other girls just because of their difference in body shape.
Then, Ariel’s date kept asking if he could look through her phone, which she obviously thought was super strange.
“And then I start thinking, what does he have on his phone that’s so juicy? Because obviously, he’s expecting me to have the same kind of thing,” Ariel recalls.
After showing him some basic funny photos on her phone, Ariel then asks her date if they can go through his phone.
Of course, he immediately gets super defensive about it and says no. This leaves Ariel wondering what’s on his phone even more since it is so obvious he is hiding something on there.
After this off interaction, they spend some time hanging out; him playing the piano and her singing along. “It was actually quite wholesome,” Ariel says. Then head back to the couch, which was so uncomfortable that Ariel sat on the ground, and he sat right in front of her.
At this point, it’s clear that he wants to kiss her, but Ariel is not really on the same page. She kisses him a little bit, but again is just not vibing with her date at all.
“I’m kinda making them short and like pulling away, but he’s just not getting the hint,” says Ariel.
Shortly after, Ariel’s date is on his phone, and she sees the perfect opportunity to find out what he is hiding.
“So I go to camera roll, hidden, flash the phone to his face so it unlocks, and I only got a really, really quick glimpse, but there was some weird [stuff] on there,” Ariel recalls.
Ariel starts to plan her exit at this point after seeing some inappropriate content on her date’s phone. However, he keeps trying to get her to stay, which just makes her feel more uncomfortable.
Eventually, agrees to take her home, but naturally, he makes a weird comment to Ariel in the car. She is super cold, and he mentions that he has no fat on his body and never gets cold and is confused about how she was so cold.
Ariel reassures herself that he’s being weird and rude because he’s embarrassed that she essentially rejected him by the end of the night. Unfortunately, a lot of guys think they can act ugly to someone just because they are not interested in them.
Ariel considers this one of her most horrible dates. What have you done in her position?
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