He Just Found Out That His Girlfriend’s Married Family Friend Is Paying For Her College Tuition In Exchange For Romantic Conversations, And His Girlfriend Does Have A Crush On Him
This 23-year-old guy has a girlfriend the same age as him named Sarah, and they have been dating for the last 7 months.
He loves Sarah and envisions a future with her too. He’s positive that Sarah is the girl he’s going to propose to and marry one day.
Sadly, he just found something out about her that he thinks is disturbing.
Now, Sarah has a married family friend named Matt, who is in his mid or late 30s. Matt has a toddler with his wife, and he used to live next door to Sarah.
Matt still stays in touch with Sarah’s family and even changes the oil in all of their cars for free. Sarah has mentioned Matt to him and said he’s super kind and really does a lot for her family.
“She later told me that he was paying her to write emails for his business because his English wasn’t the best,” he explained.
“She was keeping this income secret, no one else in her family knew. I didn’t think anything of it, she’s just earning some extra cash.”
Not that long ago, Sarah brought up her Uncle Jack and the fact that she doesn’t get along with him.
When he asked her for more information, she said that her Uncle Jack wanted her to stay away from Matt because he was concerned Matt might take advantage of her.
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Sarah’s Uncle Jack then went to Sarah’s mom to say the same things, and then Sarah’s mom began believing that Sarah and Matt were actually having some kind of affair.
Sarah stopped talking to her Uncle Jack over this, and Sarah’s relationship with her mom really suffered too.
He believed what Sarah was saying, as at that point, he didn’t have any reason to think that she was having an affair, especially since Matt was married with a child. He figured Uncle Jack was simply being protective or paranoid.
But then, a couple of months ago, he was using Sarah’s phone (they routinely share phones and aren’t secretive about what’s on there), and he saw a notification from Matt.
“He reacted with a heart eyes emoji to some photos she had sent,” he explained. “So I opened it to see what photos. She had sent him solo photos of her from one of our dates.”
“She was wearing a backless dress and posing with her back turned to the camera. Not the most revealing…photo, but still a bit odd for my GF.”
Sarah is not the kind of girl to ever do something like this, and he thought it was weird, but he chose not to say anything to her.
Last week, he was once again on Sarah’s phone, and he saw a new text from Matt saying he loves her back.
He decided to open up the text, even though his heart was pounding, and he indeed saw that Sarah had texted Matt first, saying that she loves him and she called him baby.
Fighting back tears, he couldn’t believe the message, so he instantly confronted Sarah. At first, she had nothing to say, so when he said their relationship was over, she began begging him to listen to her side of the story.
“She tells me that it’s over between them,” he said. “She had liked him, and he had liked her back. But, she didn’t see a future with him because he’s already married and has a kid.”
“She also tells me that he pays for her college, and in return, she just talks to him. Things like, how was your day, how’s his son, how’s the business, I love you… etc. She tells me she was desperate for money and that she’s never been [physical] with him. Not even a kiss.”
“She swore on her future unborn children. She proceeded to tell me how much she loves me and how her love and care were genuine. She was just desperate for money, and that I would’ve never understood… etc. I tell her it’s over, but I need some time to process. I make her pack all her belongings and walk her to her car.”
He really thought Sarah was his soulmate, and he knows she did love him for real. Sarah is also a kind person, but she did a terrible thing that he can’t easily forgive.
He’s struggling to envision a future that does include Sarah, especially since she not only lied to him but she ruined the trust he had for her. He isn’t positive if something physical ever did occur between her and Matt, but obviously, there was an emotional thing going on there, which he thinks might even be worse.
Since that night, he’s been getting texts from Sarah, and she says she knows that she made a big mistake, but she cannot live without him in her life. She promises to do anything in order to win him back, but he’s still doubting they can repair their relationship.
Do you think he should take Sarah back?
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