His Girlfriend Cheated On Him, Had A Child With Another Guy, And Now Wants Him Back

liliyabatyrova - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
liliyabatyrova - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 22-year-old guy and his 24-year-old girlfriend started out as friends, and that all began back when they were just toddlers.

He has had a crush on her since forever, and now that they’re all grown up, they began dating seriously for several months.

“I’ve always had feelings for her, and I thought she was my soul mate,” he explained. “We had a lot of plans and goals to complete together, but she acted to play games and left me for another dude.”

“Obviously, it hurt, and I am still feeling some sort of betrayal over it. The thing is, she had a baby with that guy.”

He understandably was so hurt that he cut her out of his life entirely, despite the fact that she kept on attempting to remain friends with him.

He never bought into that, and he remained steadfast in keeping her out of his life for good. But that all changed not that long ago when he ended up running into her several times.

When he got to see her, he did end up having a couple of deep conversations with her where they both shared their feelings with one another.

“The thing is, I am not the same,” he said. “I started making high 6 digits a year, and I think for somebody my age, I am doing very good.”

“I just recently bought a house months ago, I am able to afford the things I like, and I am living comfortably.”

liliyabatyrova – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

“She, on the other hand, dumped and kicked her boyfriend out. Right after she did that, she called me to tell me she wanted to give it another go. I have issues, ever since she left me, I was feeling lonely, and I am still attached to her.”

He is concerned, though, that she’s not trying to get back together with him for the right reasons. He does suspect that she wants to be with him because he’s super successful at this point in time.

He does not want to exactly confront her in a way that comes across as mean, but he really would like to figure out if her intentions are good and her heart is in the right place.

Do you think he should trust her and give her another chance?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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