She Told Her Fiancée’s Dad That He Was Uninvited From Their Wedding Because He Called Their Engagement A Joke
This 32-year-old woman named Jeana is currently engaged to her 34-year-old soon-to-be wife, Zoe.
So, they hosted an engagement dinner, and she decided to make a toast to new beginnings. All of the guests seemed to enjoy her toast and happily “clinked” their glasses, too. Well, that was except for Zoe’s father– her future father-in-law.
“He just sat there with his arms crossed, staring daggers at me,” she recalled.
At that point, she looked over toward her fiancée. But Zoe was busy speaking with her brother.
So, she dropped it, and the dinner continued on. Yet, about 20 minutes into the meal, she overheard a conversation occurring at the end of the table. That was where some of the older guests, including her parents and grandparents, were sitting.
All of a sudden, she heard her mom say, “Excuse me?” Then, she listened as Zoe’s father responded, “It just is not natural.”
At that moment, she wanted to know what was going on and asked the group. But then, the entire end of the table became super silent.
Eventually, though, Zoe’s father did speak up, and he admitted that while he was happy for her and Zoe, he didn’t like the fact that she was a girl.
Afterward, she asked Zoe’s father what he meant by that comment. And he had the nerve to claim that their entire engagement was just a joke!
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“He actually started to look around for some type of backup,” she revealed.
Still, she just laughed in her fiancée’s father’s face before claiming that if he felt that way, then he should not go to the wedding.
Her response apparently made him extremely upset, and Zoe’s father even tried to say that she couldn’t tell him what to do. On top of that, he claimed he would still be attending the event anyway.
However, she refused to tolerate his behavior. So, she finally put her foot down and told her fiancée’s dad that he was not welcome at their big day.
“For years, I had to sit and listen to him talk down on me and Zoe’s relationship,” she explained.
“But this time, I was not letting it happen.”
Following the party, though, she started to regret her decision. Zoe’s mother wound up claiming that because she uninvited Zoe’s father, none of Zoe’s family would be attending the wedding anymore.
“Now, Zoe is extremely upset and has been crying since we got home,” she vented.
This has since left her wondering whether telling Zoe’s father he’s no longer welcome at the wedding was the wrong thing to do or not.
Can you understand why she doesn’t want someone at her wedding who doesn’t support her marriage? At the same time, was it wrong to uninvite Zoe’s dad without talking to her fiancée first? How should she handle this situation?
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