After Her Third Date With A Guy, She Invited Him Back To Her Place To Have Some Wine With Her, But He Got So Aggressive That She Had To Lock Herself In Her Bedroom
TikToker Abby (@wanderwithabby) is talking about the most horrible date she’s ever experienced.
It was her third date with this guy, and she invited him into her home for some wine after dinner. However, he got super drunk and became extremely aggressive.
He would not respect her boundaries when she told him she did not want to take things to a physical level. It got to the point where Abby was forced to lock herself in her bedroom because she was so terrified.
In a video posted to TikTok, the guy can be heard pleading with Abby to open the door and her telling him to go away.
An hour later, she decided to venture outside her room to see if he was still there. She saw that he was passed out on the couch and discovered that he had left a disgusting surprise in the bathroom. Her bathroom sink was filled with his vomit.
In a follow-up video, Abby explained the circumstances leading up to the incident. So they went on their first date a week and a half before this incident.
Their second date was a double date with Abby’s friends, who actually really liked him. For their third date, he asked Abby out to dinner. Dinner was amazing, and there were no red flags in sight.
Abby was having a great time and didn’t want the night to end, so she invited him over to her house. But little did she know that she would deeply regret it.
Things quickly went south after arriving at her place. She poured two glasses of wine for both of them, then went to take her dogs outside.
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Abby was only gone for about three to four minutes, but when she returned, he had chugged his entire glass of wine and was in the midst of pouring himself another one.
She raised an eyebrow because they already had two martinis at the restaurant. He proceeded to drink three glasses of wine in less than ten minutes.
Abby could sense a shift in his behavior. He started getting really handsy with her, which immediately gave her the ick.
So she decided to call it a night and told him that she was tired. But he was persistent about getting physical with her.
She continued to tell him no and offered to let him crash on her couch. While she went to grab some pillows and blankets for him, he climbed into her bed.
Then, he threw up in her bed and ran to the bathroom. Once he finished puking, he began to cry about how Abby was rejecting him.
He kept trying to hug her, so Abby locked herself in her room to get away from him.
In another video, she showed screenshots of their text conversation after all the drama that had occurred.
After she had snuck out of her room that night, she texted him, asking him to clean the bathroom before he left because it was clogged with vomit.
However, he left the mess for her to take care of. Later, he apologized for the mess and said he felt like he had done something to upset her.
She responded with a descriptive list of reasons why she would no longer be keeping in touch with him.
And here’s how he replied: “Thank you, Abby. I’m so sorry. I’m disappointed in myself. And heartbroken about how I made you feel. I will work on myself, and I’ll miss you.”
What do you think? Did he take accountability for his actions?
@wanderwithabby I think it’s fair to say I’ll be deleting hinge for awhile. I should never feel unsafe in my own home! #hingedatefail #hingedatestory #hingenightmare #datinggonewrong #scarydatingappstories #nomeansno #datingfail #hingedating #sandiego
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