She Wants To Attend Her Sister’s Wedding, But Her Sister’s Future Mother-In-Law Thinks She Will Just Get Drunk And Ruin The Entire Event
Due to a lot of mental health issues, this 26-year-old woman has been an alcoholic for years. But, she has since begun to recover, and she is extremely happy with her progress thus far.
“I’m not perfect, but I’m getting there!” she said.
Her 24-year-old sister is also very proud of her, and they have been best friends throughout the whole process.
Being that her sister is getting married very soon, she was also asked to be the maid of honor at the event. While she was extremely excited and accepted the special role in her sister’s wedding, though, her sister’s soon-to-be mother-in-law has been an absolute nightmare.
She recently received a bunch of text messages from her sister’s mother-in-law insinuating that she should not go to the wedding. Apparently, her sister’s mother-in-law is afraid that she will get drunk and “spoil” her soon-to-be brother-in-law’s special day.
But she claimed that, no matter how she was feeling mentally, she would never, ever do that– especially at a wedding. She knows how disrespectful that kind of behavior would be.
That’s why she wound up responding to her sister’s mother-in-law and claiming that she wouldn’t get drunk. She also pointed out how the woman had no right to tell her not to attend her sister’s wedding.
Regardless, her sister’s mother-in-law fired back even more text messages– claiming not to trust her because of how “loud” and “outgoing” she can sometimes be.
“Seriously though, my sister’s mother-in-law has never even seen me drink alcohol, and neither has my sister’s fiancé,” she revealed.
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“So, she is basically just judging me on my normal personality.”
Still, the drama was far from over. Later that same day, her sister messaged her and warned her with some shocking news. Apparently, her sister’s fiancé found out that his mother was actually planning to anonymously send her a couple of bottles of her “favorite beer.”
What’s even worse is that her sister’s mother-in-law planned to have the alcohol delivered the night before her sister’s wedding– hoping she would get drunk and just miss the entire event.
After finding that out, she was seriously disgusted, too. Then, she decided to send her sister’s mother-in-law a string of texts– detailing how she would get a restraining order if the woman did not leave her alone.
Yet, her sister’s mother-in-law just kept going! The woman claimed that if she did actually go to the wedding, then her sister’s fiancé would be forced to cancel the whole event.
“I answered her saying it wouldn’t do anything because her son loves my sister and isn’t a pushover like most grooms with toxic mothers,” she recalled.
Since then, her phone has been blowing up with more messages from her sister’s mother-in-law– who is actually threatening to wear white at the wedding and engage in multiple other acts just to ruin the day if she attends.
Regardless, her sister is still insisting that she goes to the wedding. And honestly, she really wants to.
However, at the same time, she doesn’t want to force her sister or her sister’s fiancé to kick the woman out of the wedding.
“And I’m planning to go still, but I feel horrible about all of this,” she vented.
Her mother has also offered an opinion on the situation and accused her of being a jerk for forcing her sister to let her be at the wedding.
So now, ever since getting so many conflicting opinions, she’s been left wondering whether simply wanting to attend her sister’s wedding seriously makes her a jerk or not.
Why do you think her sister’s future mother-in-law is so against her attending the wedding? Can you believe the woman spoke to her like that? Do you think she is in the wrong for attending the wedding, even though her sister and her sister’s fiancé want her there? Or is her mother-in-law the problem?
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