A Couple Months Before Her Wedding, Her Fiancé Cheated On Her, And Now He’s Taking This Other Woman On Their Honeymoon
This woman and her fiancé started out as high school sweethearts and then spent eight years together.
They attended college together, began their careers together, and then bought a house together.
She can honestly say that she loved this man with everything that she had. Now, she does have to travel a ton for her job, and back in April, she took a two-week long trip for work.
When she returned, she realized a few things that made her uneasy. Her fiancé was way more adventurous than normal when they were physical, and that weirded her out since he had never been like that before.
Then, her fiancé started going out to have drinks with his work friends all the time, which is another thing that he had never done previously.
She figured that perhaps her fiancé was stressed out from work and from planning their wedding, so she brushed it off.
But then she decided to go through her fiancé’s phone, and she found some steamy and concerning messages between him and one of his female coworkers.
“She used the words at one point, “At least I can tell myself I’m not a homewrecker.” I was in shock, I mean, this man and I had a mortgage together and were a few months away from being married,” she explained.
“I didn’t know what to do. Later that next night, I asked if the wedding was bothering him and if that was the source of his stress and disconnect. I told him I loved him more than a wedding and that I would gladly cancel if it meant saving our relationship.”
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“He said he didn’t know if it was worth saving at all. We were both crying on the couch I was a complete mess, and he tells me that he had a work training that night that he needed to go to, but he would call out if I asked. I told him he could go, and so he did.”
Her fiancé left around 11 p.m. that evening and returned at 6 a.m. She later found out that he never had gone to any kind of training for work.
Instead, he was at his coworker’s house. She found this out because she went through his phone again when he fell asleep.
She decided to make copies of all of the messages between her fiancé and his coworker, that way, she had evidence of him cheating.
When she was finished, at around 8 a.m., she chucked her fiancé’s phone at him with all of her strength while he was still sleeping and demanding to know who his female coworker was.
He woke up, shocked, and tried to play dumb. She told her fiancé that she had seen him messaging this girl, and he continued to pretend he had no idea what she was talking about.
Finally, her fiancé confessed to kissing his coworker at a work party, and he swore that nothing else had gone on between them.
She knows that there is more to it than that because he had just been at his coworker’s house in the early hours of that morning.
In the end, her fiancé moved out of their home, and she has spent the whole summer saving up her money so that she can refinance their home to be entirely in her name. She’s only a couple of weeks away from achieving this goal.
“We would’ve been getting married this month. So that’s been difficult enough,” she said. “But then I found out through a mutual friend that he’s taking her on our would-be honeymoon.”
“I can’t believe someone could be so evil. I can’t believe someone I loved so much would betray me so utterly. I can’t get over that I gave this man my soul, and he crushed it without even a shred of second thought. I’m a feminist through and through, I’m a girls girl. But this woman knew I existed.”
“Part of it for her was being able to steal him, to be so irresistible that she could do that must’ve been a huge [messed] up ego boost for her. But man, I can’t imagine being okay with being the other woman and then going on the honeymoon and being okay with that. The one thing that is bringing me comfort in this is knowing that when they [are physical] on this trip, there’s no way they can’t think of me. I hate her. I hate him.”
What advice do you have for her?
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