Her Boyfriend Cheated On Her, Left Her For The Other Woman, And Then Asked If She Would Like To Play The Role of His Side Chick
This 26-year-old woman began dating her 31-year-old boyfriend this March and quickly began to believe that he was seeing other women even though they were supposed to be official.
She began to doubt his faithfulness when he mentioned he didn’t want her to share photos of him on social media, and that he would prefer if she kept their relationship on the “private” side.
Her boyfriend met her aunt and her mom later on, and she even spoke to his family. They planned on her actually getting to meet his loved ones in July, too, so things were definitely moving in a serious track.
Her boyfriend attended her graduation ceremony, and then he left to go to a concert in Miami that lasted all weekend.
As things progressed, her boyfriend said that they should move in with one another, but she was opposed to that.
They compromised, and she said that as soon as she got a job, she would be happy to move in with him, as at that point in time, she was still finishing up grad school.
Just one week before she was set to move out of her own place and in with him, she discovered on social media that when he had gone to that concert in Miami, he was with another woman.
She also learned that same day that he was in Mexico spending time with this other woman, so she instantly tried to confront her boyfriend.
She called him several times, but he didn’t pick up, so she decided to send him some messages.
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In one message, she told him that she knew their relationship was done, but she still asked to move in with him since she had no place else to go. She said she would rather live with him until she was able to find a job, and she followed through with that plan, which she regrets to this day.
She was in the middle of interviewing for a job in the same state that he was living in, and so, her then ex-boyfriend accused her of not wanting to move because of him; he accused her of only moving for her job.
“I told the other woman about my relationship with him. She basically told me off and stayed with him,” she explained.
“It’s been 2 months of living with him, rubbing it in my face that he chose her. I went through their texts, and he told her I used him and that he loved her more. All the while, he was still telling me he didn’t know who to pick.”
“I eventually “woke” up and walked out of the relationship. I also got the job, and I start in a few weeks. He told me he wants us to keep in touch and “have fun” when I leave. I walked out of the conversation because I believe I am worth a committed, loyal, and honest lover. As I type this, he drove 2 hours to be with her, I am jealous because I still have feelings for him, but I know I deserve better so she can have him.”
So, yeah. Her ex cheated on her, left her for this other woman, and then asked if she would still be interested in playing the role of his side chick.
She’s left wondering if she should tell this other woman everything that happened and give her her side of the story. She’s worried that this other woman will have to go through everything she just endured, and she is aware that her ex is cheating on this other woman with different girls already.
Do you think it’s worth her reaching out, or should she move on and say nothing?
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