She Just Learned That Her Husband Was Still Married When They Started Dating And Had A Baby Together, So He’s Nothing But A Cheater And A Liar
This 36-year-old woman and her 43-year-old husband just celebrated four years of being married, and unfortunately, her life isn’t as picture-perfect as she thought it was.
Six years ago, she started dating her husband, and she met him in her town. Her husband was in her area for a military assignment that was supposed to last a year.
When she did meet her husband, he revealed to her that his ex-wife was awful to him and had cheated on him for more than half the decade they had spent together.
She felt terrible for her husband when he relayed all of this information to her, and all of his loved ones backed up his story, so she had no reason not to believe what he was saying.
Things with her husband progressed quickly, and she ended up living with him very soon into their relationship.
She also got pregnant fast, and her husband proposed to her a couple of months into her pregnancy, though he asked to have a long engagement, which ended up lasting around two years.
“It all happened super fast, but I was wildly in love and didn’t think anything was wrong with my happy little family until one day, out of the total blue, I received a Facebook message from his ex-wife, calling me a homewrecker…” she explained.
Her husband’s ex-wife also called her son some ugly names, and she was quite puzzled over the whole thing.
Remember, her husband had said he wasn’t married when she began dating him. Instead of replying to her husband’s ex-wife, she confronted him about it.
Tatyana Gladskih – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Her husband promised that his ex was nuts and was the one who had been the cheater in their relationship, not him.
Her husband’s friends and even his own mom jumped to defend him, and so she kept believing what was said to her.
Recently, she and her husband celebrated their wedding anniversary, and she had totally forgotten about the ex-wife incident.
She adores her husband and the life they have created, and she’s really happy with where they are right now.
But, one day, she had a gut feeling that she should look up her husband’s ex on social media and do a little digging.
She did just that, and she was pretty horrified at what she found when she began poking around on social media.
“So anyway, I went to her page, and several months before, she had written this awful, scathing post about me, calling me and my son all kinds of very nasty names and saying that soon my husband is going to do to me what he did to her because he’s a narcissist who doesn’t care who he hurts,” she said.
She decided to reach out to her husband’s ex, saying she’s sorry she feels the way that she does, but she could not possibly be a homewrecker.
She even sent her husband’s ex the date that she started going out with him in an effort to prove the truth.
Unfortunately, that backfired on her in a big way.
“MUCH TO MY SHOCK AND DISMAY, she replied with lots and lots of proof that they were indeed still married at that time,” she continued.
“I started digging and found his divorce record. It does say that he was not legally divorced until our son was nearly 6-months-old. I guess I now understand why he wanted a 2 year-long engagement.”
She has no clue what to do because if she does confront her husband about lying to her and being a cheater, he’s going to know that she has been speaking to his ex.
Her husband will be furious with her for talking to his ex in the first place, but it’s eating her alive to know the truth about her situation.
She’s doing her best to fake that everything is alright, but she can’t keep this up for much longer.
“He has obviously lied to me about this before – repeatedly and to my face – so if I confront him, I feel like he’s going to lie to me again,” she added.
“I now can’t trust him. I don’t think he’s lied to me about anything else, but if he would lie about this, what else would he lie about??? This is a big lie. I do now worry that he WILL do the same thing to me, like his ex-wife’s post said. I do also think there could be/probably is a lot more to the story, maybe she did cheat first, IDK.”
“But even if she did, and even if him getting with me was retaliation for her actions, I’m not at all sure that would be enough for me to trust him again moving forward. This is just over, right? IDK how to get past this at all. I have always told my friends to never date a cheater because how you get them is how you lose them.”
What do you think she should do?
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