Her Mom Kicked Her Out After She Became Pregnant At 16, But Now She Wants Her To Move Home
Ever since this 18-year-old girl was little, her mom always told her to talk to her before deciding to do anything physical with a guy.
Although her mom tried to keep the lines of communication open around such a sensitive subject, she never decided to confide in her mom about her personal life.
Now, in regards to the relationship she has always had with her mom, it’s been kind of like a roller coaster.
“She was always very confusing and mixed between drill sergeant parenting and very chill parenting,” she explained.
“When I started high school, things started to get a lot worse with us. I was a rebel or anything like that, but we just started fighting a lot more, and I would lie to her/omit things when it came to what I was doing…then I got pregnant at 16.”
“I don’t know why, but my first instinct was to hide it, which I did, but she eventually found out and kicked me out.”
She did not speak to her mom for quite a long time, but then, over the course of this past summer, she surprisingly reconnected with her mom.
Her mom ended up saying sorry to her for kicking her out of the house, and she apologized to her mom as well.
They have been routinely speaking since making up and smoothing things over, and now her mom has been asking her to move back home.
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She’s thinking this is something she would like to do, even though her current living situation is pretty great.
Her 20-year-old boyfriend’s family has been wonderful to her, and living with them has been the opposite of how things were when she lived with her mom.
“His family has also been super helpful and caring, so I don’t know why a strong part of me wants to move back home,” she said.
“I feel like if I do, I’d be making a huge mistake because if things were bad before I left, how is it going to be any different with a baby? A lot of things could go wrong, and I just don’t know how to think this through.”
Do you think she should take her mom up on her offer to move home or keep living with her boyfriend’s family since that’s been a good thing for her?
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