After 20 years of marriage, TikToker Lisa (@1984oregonian) learned that her husband was no longer happy with their lifestyle, so he decided to move on with someone new, namely the woman who lives four minutes down the road with her kids.
Apparently, his mistress was very unhappy with Lisa for sharing the story online, so she showed up at her house drunk at 10:45 p.m., trying to play the victim.
Lisa woke up that night to her knocking on the door. She wanted to talk, so Lisa invited her in to hear what she had to say.
“She instantly started talking about how she just wanted to clear the air,” said Lisa. “She wanted to make sure I knew that they didn’t actually get together until after we were separated, after the divorce process.”
However, Lisa’s husband had never said he wanted a divorce until he was caught on a date with his mistress. Photographic proof of their affair was sent to their child.
After lying to Lisa’s face and threatening her, Lisa grabbed her arm and tried to throw her out of the house. She screamed at her to get out before she called the cops. At that point, Lisa’s 17-year-old daughter came downstairs to see what was going on.
The mistress also wanted to ask Lisa’s daughter a few questions because some of her dad’s stories weren’t making sense, and she was trying to determine if she was wasting her time with him. Lisa’s daughter handled the situation well.
“You absolutely have to be delusional to watch a man completely abandon his child, his blood, and watch him refuse to take any accountability, physically, mentally, or financially, for her and still think that man’s going to treat you right,” Lisa stated.
Lisa informed her soon-to-be ex-husband about the surprise visit the next morning. She even took a picture of the mistress sitting in her living room as evidence because no one would believe her otherwise.

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He still has not finalized the divorce yet. According to the mistress, she has been encouraging Lisa’s ex-husband to have a relationship with his kids.
So, he finally texted their daughter the next day after seven months of silence. He did not apologize or take accountability for anything.
Lisa is pointing out that he is just doing what his girlfriend is telling him to do, so he looks like a better man. The sad part is that the mistress has put more effort into the kids than he has in the past two years, even though it’s not her responsibility.
The only thing Lisa cares about now is finalizing the divorce and ensuring that her ex steps up to provide for their daughter, but so far, he hasn’t made any move to do so.