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Her Husband Had An Affair With His Secretary And Got Fired From His Job, So She Divorced Him

profile Emily Chan | Jun 18, 2026
Jun 18, 2026
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After TikToker Kate (@_ktelyn) found out that her husband had been having an affair with his secretary for the past year, she divorced him, and they split custody of their dog. She has the dog most of the time.

One day, her ex-husband’s sister texted her, asking her to give her a call about an urgent matter. So, Kate called her and was told that her ex had been admitted to the hospital and needed surgery. The sister wanted to bring the dog back to Kate.

They also engaged in some small talk. Kate doesn’t think his sister, or the rest of his family, for that matter, knows what really went down between them.

She’s in no rush to spill the tea because she has moved on with her life and doesn’t need the validation that comes from exposing someone else’s wrongdoings.

“The way our relationship ended made me look like I was absolutely insane, but what it turned out to be was that my ex just needed to deflect because he was having an affair with his secretary for the past year and ended up getting fired from his job,” said Kate.

She heard that her ex has been struggling to make things work with a married woman who has children for the last two years. He has not done any introspection, while Kate has grown significantly as a person and is living her best life.

Rumor has it that he recently stated he thinks he made a mistake leaving Kate.

In the comments section, many TikTok users were convinced that Kate’s former sister-in-law knew far more about the situation than she was letting on.

She may not know every detail, but she probably has a good idea about what happened. Others applauded Kate for taking the high road and refusing to rehash all the drama, even when she probably had every reason to clear her name.

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“As a sister of a brother who’s had multiple engagements and marriages, she knows, and she is glad her brother is having a hard time. She knows you’re doing better,” pointed out one user.

“I think she knows. They always know, coming from a similar experience. She probably is secretly happy for you,” commented another.

“Girl, this was me. My ex-husband had an affair with a coworker and got fired for it because he was her supervisor. What moves in the dark always comes to light. I’m thriving, married to my soulmate, and just had my first baby. Love it when women who go through this thrive,” shared a third.

“My ex-husband’s family has no idea why I left. Telling them the truth would do nothing for my peace or theirs. But it can be hard to stay silent sometimes,” chimed in a fourth.

@_ktelyn

Edit: To the commenters who think I’m “protecting him” please watch my follow up video. Also, unfortunately I was too damn depressed when we went through our divorce to realize sharing our dog wouldn’t be something that I’d want long term (although we’ve found a way to make it work civilly without having to come face to face ever) and therefore I am legally required to share the dog now. #divorcetok #divorcedwomen #HealingJourney

? original sound – kate

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By Emily Chan

Emily Chan is a writer who covers lifestyle and news content. She graduated from Michigan State University with a degree in... More about Emily Chan