She Talks In Her Sleep Nearly Ever Night, So Now She’s Spilling Out All Her Secrets To Her Boyfriend
A 22-year-old girl has a boyfriend a year older than she is, and although they have been spending a ton of time in the same exact bed, her boyfriend only just told her that she talks in her sleep basically every single night.
This has been going on for about 4 months at least, and initially, when she began talking to her boyfriend in her sleep, the things that she said were pretty adorable.
Her boyfriend filled her in that she would do things like mention his name while she was asleep and also put one of her fingers up against him.
Her sleep talking got more and more interesting, though, and she began repeating her dreams to them as they were happening.
“I tell him every night “I love you most” in my sleep, I’ll nibble on him occasionally, I’ll tell him to not leave,” she explained.
“But it’s not all peachy and that’s why I’m struggling.”
“Then I’d said I hate my sister in my sleep. I vent about her a lot but don’t hate her. It would make sense that I’d say that subconsciously but it’s not true. It’s probably just being fed up. Then I said he was chubby. My boyfriend is fit but we’ve both let ourselves go in the last few months.”
She’s never hinted at the weight being an issue, but her subconscious had no problem letting that fly while she was asleep.
She also disclosed to her boyfriend in her sleep that she had been chatting with other guys before they decided to commit to one another.
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So, she knows that she is spilling all of her secrets out to her boyfriend while sleeping, and it’s starting to really worry her.
But then, her boyfriend let it slip that she admitted to not being faithful to him, which she cannot believe since it’s false.
“This is where it’s truly alarming, because I honestly never have,” she said. “When we had our most dense problems I fantasized about being out of our relationship while we worked through it, there were men in my life I felt like I’d rather be with because I was miserable, but my boyfriend is truly great and I’d never cheat and never have cheated.”
She has put in the effort on her relationship to be in a place with her boyfriend where she can look back and say that she is thrilled they made it to where they did, because she had her doubts.
“This is why it hurt my heart so much,” she continued. “He told me he never wanted to tell me because he wouldn’t have blamed me at the time, takes everything I say with a grain of salt when I’m asleep, and also he wants me to be comfortable sleeping next to him… but now I’m not.”
“I want to be. I love him. I’m at a loss because I love to cuddle and sleep next to , but now I don’t know if I can comfortably. I thought of sleep as a safe time and space but now I don’t know.”
Do you think her sleep talking is ruining her relationship?
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