She Believes Her Marriage Has Been Poisoned Beyond Repair Ever Since She Found Out Her Husband Kept Talking To Another Woman Online Who Sent Him Steamy Photos, Even After He Swore To Stop
This 40-year-old woman has been married to her husband, who is also 40, for 15 years. And over the course of their marriage, they have welcomed three children into the world together.
She has been a super supportive wife, too, and was by her husband’s side while he navigated medical school and residency.
Plus, she even passed up her own schooling opportunities and job prospects to go “all in” in their relationship.
Well, recently, her husband decided to throw all of that away after talking to a woman online. It all began after some woman messaged her husband. The woman was very attractive and thin, and she talked to her husband about his day during their first few conversations.
But then, the woman started sending her husband steamy photos, and he seemingly felt guilty– because he wound up approaching her and coming clean.
“I told him to immediately shut it down and block her,” she recalled.
Now, she never was interested in her husband’s phone before that incident– which was why she never went snooping in the past. After all, she always believed they had a strong foundation of trust and thought their marriage was solid.
After learning about her husband’s chats online with the other woman, though, she could not resist and wound up going through his cell phone that same day.
Upon snooping, she discovered that her husband had told the woman that he was forced to block her. In fact, her husband actually claimed, “My wife is making me.”
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Then, she saw that the woman even had a “friend” reply back to her husband with instructions on how they could still talk in secret.
Once she found those messages, she was livid. She also deleted the messages, blocked the other woman, and finally, blocked the “friend” who was providing her husband with shady instructions.
Afterward, though, she realized that behavior just was not “her.” So, she actually came clean about going through her husband’s phone and even apologized to him.
“And he used it as a justification to continue the relationship,” she said.
Yet, her husband still proceeded to change his passwords to everything. And just two days later, she realized something was up when she caught her husband hiding his phone again.
At that point, he came clean for a second time and admitted he was trying to make plans to meet up with the other woman. The woman was calling her husband her “soul mate,” and her husband was calling the other woman “beautiful” and flirting.
Still, her husband claimed to be extremely sorry and promised he would never talk to the other woman again.
“It will never happen again. I will block her and anyone who claims to be a friend,” her husband told her.
Regardless, that was his second strike. So, she decided to make her boundaries crystal clear with her husband. More specifically, she claimed that if he ever spoke to the other woman again, their marriage would be over.
And sadly, only two weeks later, their fate was sealed. While with her husband, she watched as he tried to discreetly swipe away from a message on his phone. So, she had a gut feeling he was up to something again and decided to snoop.
She discovered that her husband was still talking to the other woman and even tried to justify his actions with one of his cousins!
“He told his cousin I am [too old to have kids] and that [the other woman] wants his babies. And who is he to deny the other woman that?” she revealed.
“…And he said he wants to keep the other woman as a [backup plan] and just keep me in the dark– you know, to make sure. He also wondered if he should just leave me.”
Apparently, her husband planned to just “delicately” maintain both relationships! After finding out her husband’s true thoughts on the situation, that was it for her. In her mind, her husband was way past strike three.
So, he has since been staying at a hotel and is even trying to get her back. He keeps apologizing and claiming it will not happen again. But she has heard all of that before.
And what hurts her the most is the fact that they have three young kids together. That’s why she has no clue if she should really “pull the plug” on their marriage or not.
“Everyone I’ve told is shocked and thinks he may have gone insane or is having a mid-life crisis,” she vented.
“I feel that it has poisoned our marriage beyond repair.”
Nonetheless, she is still trying to figure out how to deal with this situation and is seeking any advice on how to move forward.
Do you think her marriage can be repaired? Does it seem like her husband will ever be able to stay true to his word and be faithful in their relationship? If your partner did something like this, would you be able to stay with them? How should she proceed?
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