She Had A Bad Sleepover With A Guy, And When He Left, She Quickly Took All Of Her Bedding To The Dry Cleaners

Chip Chick |

Jun 4, 2023

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You’ve heard about not judging a book by its cover when it comes to dating, but here is your reminder to not be too quick to judge a person’s behavior after only one date.

TikTok creator Katie (@kayteehugs) shares one of the worst dating app stories that happened to her when she decided to pursue a second date with a guy she initially enjoyed her time with.

After having such a great first date experience, Katie decided to invite the guy over to her house for dinner the following night. However, her excitement and hopefulness about this relationship were going to be erased very quickly.

When he arrived at her house, Katie realized that he was wearing the same clothes that he was wearing the day before. Upon mentioning it, the guy explains that he had to stay the night at his Uncle’s house because he was too intoxicated, and he went to work the next morning and went straight to Katie’s.

She questioned him again, asking if that meant that he had not taken a shower, and he said that he hadn’t. Red flag number one in Katie’s point of view!

She makes them dinner, and as he’s eating, she notices that he is dropping the food all over her floor. She makes a comment to him about this, and after apologizing, he picks the food up from the floor and puts it in his mouth. That gave Katie the ick, literally.

He starts to put together a drone that he had and asks Katie if she has any snacks he could have. Katie replied that she didn’t really have anything aside from vegetables.

He then remembers he has a bag of nuts in his car and goes out to grab them. He comes back in, starts snacking, and again begins making a mess all over Katie’s floor.

“I’m like, ‘You’re dropping them all over my floor.’ And he picks it up, and he’s like, ‘Ooh, that was a big one!’ and he pops it in his mouth,” recalls Katie.

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As it starts to get later, Katie offers her date to stay over for the night since he has had 3 beers at her house already. He asks her if he can take a shower, which Katie initially probably thought was a good thing, but she would not think that for long.

“He goes to the bathroom and takes a shower with the door wide open. Gets out of the shower. He’s drying himself in the doorway, completely without clothes. So I’m doing everything I can to, like, keep eye contact,” Katie says.

It is past midnight at this point, and Katie tells him that she needs to go to bed because she gets up really early for work. He asks her if he can watch a movie, and she allows it. What she did not accept was his next request.

“And then he goes, ‘Hey, do you have a nail clipper?’ and I’m like, ‘I’m sorry a what?’ and he’s like, ‘A nail clipper’ he’s like ‘I have some really bad ingrowns.’ I was like, ‘No. No, I don’t. No.’ says Katie.

Katie then gets into bed wearing the biggest clothes she can find. And while he instantly falls asleep, she is left tossing and turning throughout the whole night.

She gets up around 4 AM to start getting ready for work. By 6:15 AM, she wakes up the guy and tells him that he needs to leave before she has to head out.

“So he goes in my bathroom again…with the door open…In my bathroom. In a one-bedroom apartment, with the door open. We went from knowing each other for 48 hours to being married for 15 years,” Katie says.

He finally leaves, and as soon as he does, she grabs all of her bedding off of her bed to take to the cleaners ASAP. This, unfortunately, would not be the last that Katie would hear from this guy, though.

He was still texting and calling her a lot after this second date of theirs. She would respond every once in a while but mostly ignored him. One morning, she woke up to 13 missed calls from him.

After not hearing anything from this guy in a week or so, she gets a text from him saying that he is in town and asks to hang out.

“I was like, ‘You have to realize that, like, that night was a mess, right? Like that was terrible.’ And he’s like, “Why? Was I rude? Was I loud? Did I eat like a slob?’. I wanted to be like, ‘Bro, all of the above! All of the above!’ Katie retells.

“I just said, ‘I think we are on like separate pages in life, and I’m just like not into it.'”

This story goes to show that you don’t really know someone after one date, even if it was a good one. How would you have reacted if you were in Katie’s shoes?