He Unblocked His Female Coworker Who Put The Moves On Him After His Girlfriend Refused To Block Her Ex Who Sent Her A Shady Text

When exes reach out to us after we’ve moved on, things can get messy. This can cause jealousy within our relationships, whether that jealousy is warranted or not.
Because of this, boundaries are absolutely crucial.
This man and his girlfriend have been dating for two years.
The main argument they’ve had throughout their relationship involves the boundaries that should be in place for exes and friends of the opposite gender. Recently, this constant disagreement has escalated.
“Out of the blue, she gets this dodgy text from her ex. She didn’t spill all the beans, but it was dodgy enough to get my radar beeping,” he said.
So, he told his girlfriend to block her ex. But she didn’t seem thrilled about that idea.
“She’s all, ‘Nah, that’d be harsh.’ And I’m here scratching my head, thinking, does she like this drama? She’s all defensive, swearing it’s not like that,” he explained.
However, even though it clearly seemed as if the messages from his girlfriend’s ex were stressing her out, she refused to block him, and he didn’t understand why.
“Now, let’s flip the script. The next evening, I told my girlfriend about this coworker,” he shared.

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“She tried to make moves a while back, so I swerved and hit ‘block’ on Instagram. Thought I was being a good guy.”
“But, after my girl’s ex-text saga, I felt a bit cheeky and unblocked the coworker. I mean, if blocking’s ‘harsh’ now, who am I to argue?”
When he told his girlfriend that he’d unblocked this coworker who’d previously flirted with him, she was upset. She told him to block her again on Instagram.
They argued for a while because he thought it was hypocritical that she wouldn’t block her ex the day before because she said that behavior would be harsh, but now she wants him to keep this coworker blocked.
Eventually, his girlfriend agreed to block her ex. Despite this, though, he’s debating on not respecting his girlfriend’s wishes by once again blocking his coworker. So far, he’s leaning toward keeping his coworker unblocked.
Do you think he was wrong to act this way?
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