He Called Out His Married Friend For Flirting With A Woman, And Now His Friend Won’t Talk To Him
Have you ever been in a position where you have had to hold your dating or married friend accountable and remind them to stay loyal to their partner while you are out?
TikTok creator Deshawn (@deshawn_sings) shares the story of a time when he refused to let his married friend flirt with other women when they were out at the club together, and now his friend won’t talk to him.
Deshawn and his friend were out at the club one night when his married friend started talking to other women there.
Deshawn was not about to let this continue any further and told his friend to stop. His friend was irritated that Deshawn was interfering with his choices, but Deshawn was not afraid to be upfront with him.
“Spending all this money to come to y’all’s wedding to watch you come in this club and cheat and mess it all up? That’s my money I spent on your wedding! I spent my money on your wedding,” Deshawn explains.
He encourages his friend to go get himself a drink, even offering to pay for it, and tells him he needs to cut it out and sit down.
The comments of this viral video are flooded with positive remarks, saying that Deshawn did the right thing in calling his friend out on his behavior.
“Good! It’s not enough men who check their friends. YES! Hold him accountable,” one commenter says.
“Yes- people need to normalize calling friends out for inappropriate behavior,” another person agrees.
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What would you do in this situation? While you might want to stay quiet and support your friends even through their bad decisions, it’s important to hold your friends accountable in these types of situations that will only cause further hurt.
“What’s crazy is all jokes aside, somebody who cares about you ain’t gonna watch you destroy your empire. Only a hater would encourage it,” one commenter shares.
“What a stand-up guy you are!!! We need more like you!!!,” another viewer exclaims.
Before you willingly let your friend mess up their relationship, remember holding them accountable like Deshawn did with his friend will save everyone hurt. Not to mention, and money that you may have spent on your friend’s wedding will not be a waste!
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