Her Fiancé’s Ex Wanted Him To Sing Love Songs At Her Wedding And Freaked Out On Him When He Tried To Say No
It can be a bit uncomfortable when your partner stays friends with someone they were in a relationship with, no matter how serious or casual it was.
In those situations, there are certain boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed.
One woman is shocked after her fiancé’s ex invited him to her wedding to a new guy and asked him to perform love songs all day.
Before her fiancé, Derek met her, he was in a casual relationship with a woman who turned out to be a lot more attached to him than he was to her.
When Derek met her, he broke up with his casual girlfriend, explaining that he found the love of his life. Since they agreed to keep things non-committal, he figured it would be fine, but his ex threw a temper tantrum and accused him of breaking her heart.
Derek’s ex confessed that she loved him, but it was a little too late, and he wasn’t interested.
Derek’s ex-girlfriend harassed him with texts and calls before finally going silent for around three weeks. In that time, she met a rebound named Andy, and now they’re getting married this summer.
“While it is none of my business, I feel so bad for Andy, as he was obviously [her] plan B,” she said.
“Now Derek is invited [with a] plus one, which is me. He is a somewhat popular musician in our area, and last week, not even two months before the wedding, his ex texted him and asked him to do the music for the wedding.”
Ivan – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
She felt it was extremely tacky of this woman to invite her ex as a guest to her wedding and then expect him to take on a role that would prevent him from enjoying the wedding as a guest at the last minute.
In order for Derek to be his ex’s designated wedding musician, he’d have to go through a ton of preparation and felt it was strange that his ex wanted him to take on that role.
“He called her in [front of] me, and she had the audacity to absolutely [nag] at him, asking why he had a problem doing it,” she recalled.
“Derek could hear Andy sitting next to her, and since he is a genuinely nice human, he just told her he hasn’t picked up an instrument in a long time because he was so busy at work.”
Derek’s ex continued to complain and put him down for refusing to be her wedding musician, and she was appalled by her behavior.
Do you think she and Derek should bother going to the wedding?
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