He’s Going In Depth About The 3 Loves You’re Supposed To Encounter In Your Life
It has been said that you will really fall in love with only three different people in your lifetime, and each one of these loves was for a specific reason.
If you have heard of this saying before, you might not have paid much attention to it. Maybe you have experienced several loves throughout your life, so you think this “rule” doesn’t apply to you.
But as you look back over the years, you might come to realize that there were three relationships that stand out among the rest.
TikToker Patrick Gaudet (@patrickgotit) is going in-depth about these three types of love and at what stages of life they typically occur. And the more you hear about it, the more sense it’ll make!
So your first love often takes place at a young age, possibly during high school. It’s your first real relationship, and it’s as happy and exciting as it is in the movies. But eventually, you two grow apart and call it quits over stupid reasons.
“And when you get older, you’ll probably look back and think that wasn’t love. But in reality, it was. It was love for what you knew love to be,” explained Patrick.
Young love is equated to puppy love, which is regularly thought of as love that’s not genuine. In truth, love has many layers, so it wouldn’t be accurate to say it wasn’t real love.
Then, your second love comes along, known as the “hard love.” You will get really hurt in this relationship, and the breakup may take a while to move on from. However, you will learn valuable lessons and become a stronger person.
And even though the relationship may have ended with a lot of sadness, it’s something you will always still cherish because you wouldn’t be who you are today without that person.
Joshua Resnick – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
“This love includes lies, pain, abuse, betrayal, damage, and drama. But you know what? This one helps you grow,” stated Patrick.
Your second most significant relationship will help you realize what you love about love and what you hate about it at the same time. It also teaches you the differences between a good person and a bad person.
Before launching into another romantic relationship, you will be more cautious, closed off, careful, and considerate.
Finally, there’s your third love. This one comes out of the blue at a time when you would least expect it. You may not have been looking for love, but love found you.
“You can put up any wall you want; that wall will be broken down. You will find yourself caring about someone without even trying,” said Patrick.
This love will be nothing like previous ones. You will find beauty in all of their imperfections and won’t be afraid to show all of yourself to them. This is the person you’ll be thanking the universe for every night.
@patrickgotit The more you listen to this video, the more it make sense! And you’ll actually think of those 3 people exactly! This information is pure gold! #thoughts #advice #relationship #love #facts #tips #relationshipgoals #relationships #life this video was inspired by @xgilham ?? you nailed this one
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