She Went On A Date With A Guy Who Acted Like He Was Mad At Her From The Moment She Began Talking To Him
First dates are all about getting to know the other person to see if you would be a compatible fit. But how do you figure out if you can be something more when your date refuses to talk to you?
TikToker Liz Mina (@lizmina5) is sharing an anecdote about the worst date she’s ever been on, and it involves a guy who barely uttered a word the entire time.
About three or four years ago, she matched with a guy on Hinge, and they chatted for a bit in the app. She agreed to grab dinner with him, and they ended up going to one of her favorite restaurants.
From the moment Liz began talking to him, he acted like he was mad at her. His sullen mood set the tone for the entire night.
“The vibe was basically like we were a couple that’s been dating for like three or four years, and we were having a fight,” recalled Liz.
All of his responses were one-word answers, and he did not make an effort to have a conversation with her. To Liz, it almost felt like he didn’t want to be there since he was behaving as if she forced him to go out to dinner with her.
Luckily, the service at the restaurant was quick, and they received the check for the meal in under an hour. When the bill came, he asked Liz if she wanted to go out to a bar and grab a drink.
After the way dinner went, Liz was confused by his offer and ultimately turned him down, stating that she was tired and ready to head home.
He insisted on walking Liz to her car, and she raced out of there as soon as possible. When she arrived home, she received a message from him that left her even more bewildered.
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“As soon as I get home, he sends me a message on WhatsApp that’s like, ‘Oh, is it really bad that I wanted to kiss you when I walked you to the car?'” said Liz.
She responded by asking him if he truly thought their date had gone well. Now, he was the one acting confused.
So she explained how he was behaving during dinner, and he sent a long message back, giving the excuse that he had gotten a message from his boss and was convinced he was getting fired.
“And I was like, okay, I’m sorry you’re going through that, but if you’re incapable of setting that aside and being polite and pleasant on a first date with a woman, then you should stay home,” ranted Liz.
Then, he started dumping all his troubles with work onto Liz. Eventually, she ended the conversation.
The following day, she received another message from him that read, “I got fired.” She did not reply and made sure to block him on social media.
What do you think? Was Liz being a bit harsh on him? Or were her actions completely justified?
@lizmina5 The worst date I’ve ever been on ??? you know I don’t mind a dinner date but that one made me realize why people hate them #fyp #foryou #baddate #baddatestory #firstdatestorytime #worstdatestory #datingtiktok #hingedating #bumbledate #firstdate #firstdatestorytime #ladating #datinginyour20s #onlinedating
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