She’s Trying To Save Her Relationship For The Sake Of Her Baby, But Her Boyfriend Just Keeps Cheating On Her
This 30-year-old woman and her boyfriend have been together for 10 years. And throughout the course of their relationship, she admitted that they had encountered some rocky periods filled with animosity and resentment.
But, being that they have been together for so long, she thought that having a child would be the logical next step.
She also hoped that, after welcoming a baby into the world together, they would be able to put their issues aside.
So, she finally got pregnant. And the pregnancy was supposed to be a seriously exciting and joyful time for them as a couple.
“But then I found out that he has been cheating on me since then,” she revealed.
According to her, her boyfriend had never been unfaithful to her before. Yet, he still lied to another woman and claimed that he was single. Plus, he even called her his ex and said that their relationship was a “stalemate.”
So, her boyfriend wound up leading the other woman on for six months of her pregnancy. And it only stopped after she finally confronted the woman– telling her to leave them alone.
“But she didn’t. The woman’s excuse was that she fell in love with him not knowing about me, and it’s hard to turn off,” she explained.
Her boyfriend also claimed that he wanted to be with the other woman, yet, at the same time, he was telling her that he was committed to their relationship.
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That’s why she ended up giving her boyfriend an ultimatum. And at first, she really thought her boyfriend would try to make their relationship work.
Unfortunately, though, she found out four separate times afterward that her boyfriend had gone behind her back again to keep talking to the other woman. On top of that, he even told his affair partner that she was his soulmate and best friend!
And despite the fact that their baby just turned three months old, her boyfriend has continued sneaking around behind her back.
So, she was forced to get her boyfriend’s parents involved– who thankfully took her side. Then, her boyfriend’s parents even gave him an ultimatum, too. Since then, her boyfriend promised that he would cut off the other woman to be there for her baby. And on the one hand, she is glad because she wants their baby to grow up with two loving parents.
On the other hand, however, she has no clue how she will ever be able to deal with all of the lies and cheating to trust her boyfriend again.
“He says he loves me, but I know they had a deeper connection…,” she vented. “Part of me is jealous that they connected so much more in months than I did with him in years, even though we have memories.”
Still, she wants her boyfriend to be a part of their baby’s life and does not want him to end up in a relationship with the other woman down the road.
So, she’s also been left wondering if her boyfriend still secretly loves the other woman and how to move forward from this situation.
Would you ever be able to stay with your partner after they repeatedly cheated on you? Can you understand why she wants her boyfriend to be involved in their baby’s life? Even so, does it sound like she should remain in this relationship? What would you do?
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