After Three Dates With A Girl, He Asked Her For A Goodnight Kiss, And She Said No
This 25-year-old guy met a 22-year-old girl, and she gave him her phone number. He found her quite attractive, and he was always eager to talk to her.
Now, he had never asked her for her phone number. She was the one who just gave it to him. But anyway, after she did give him her number, they started texting every single day.
He figured she had to be into him, as she was the one who had initiated everything up until that point. After a bit of time chatting back and forth, they decided to meet up for drinks.
“Things went well, but I wanted to wait until I got a second date to initiate physical contact because I figured if we go out a second time then surely she must be interested in me,” he explained.
“Now in my head, this was definitely a date, and I would flirt with her over text and we had conversations that she 100% knew I was interested in her.”
“We have a second date, the same thing we get some drinks, but this time she invited me inside after. I just didn’t feel like I had the chance to take things further inside and we just chatted for an hour or so and I left because it was very late at night.”
They met up for a third date, which was over drinks, and he finally thought it was time for him to make a move on her.
He drove her home, and he felt that they were really connecting on a level that they had not on their prior dates.
As they pulled up to her house, she was about to climb out of his car, and he asked her if he could have a goodbye kiss.
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“We sit in awkward silence for a few seconds, and she bluntly just says no, but that she respects me for trying and gives me a fist bump,” he said.
“She says she’ll talk to me later and gets out of the car. I am extremely confused right now. I thought this girl was interested in me because she went out of her way to talk to me and gave me her number when I never even asked.”
“Now, I’ve fallen for her over the few weeks that I’ve been texting her and going out with her. I feel extremely embarrassed and I don’t know how I can ever talk to her again or hang out with her. This really crushed me because I honestly was not expecting her to say no at all. I’ve been rejected before, but never like this and I really like this girl.”
When he was rejected in the past, he just accepted it for what it was and moved on without giving it much thought.
He likes this girl so much that he saw them heading for a relationship sooner rather than later, and his confidence is shot after her saying no to the goodnight kiss.
He’s left wondering if there is any way to save the situation, and at the same time, he can’t get over the humiliation.
“I am so embarrassed and shocked that I feel like I can’t ever talk to her again,” he continued. “Like I just want to fall off the face of the earth right now.”
“How can I ever talk to her or hang out with her and try to make a move with confidence that things would be any different? Should I just try to forget about her?”
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