She Went To The Beach And Then Out To Dinner With A Guy For Their First Date, But After He Kept Pressuring Her To Hook Up With Him, She Thinks She Should Ghost Him

Bre Avery Zacharski |

Aug 7, 2023

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About a month ago, this 27-year-old girl met a 30-year-old guy on a dating app. They then began texting one another occasionally.

He attempted to organize a date with her multiple times, but their schedules just weren’t lining up, so it never happened.

But then, they finally found a time that worked out for the both of them to go on their very first date together.

“He eventually met up with me at the beach,” she explained. “The date was going well, we spent a whole day together.”

“We had a fair amount to drink throughout the day. I won’t lie throughout the day, there was heavy flirting and…tension.”

“But towards the end, we had dinner, and he started to get increasingly lusty…touchy, and make consistent…innuendos insinuating going back to his house to “cuddle.” I kept politely declining.”

When their date came to an end, she decided to pay for half of their dinner bill, and then she immediately made her way back home alone.

She did not go back to his house like he had been all over her about during dinner that evening.

Later on, this guy sent her a text to confirm that she had made it home safely. She honestly did not reply to his message, though, because she really was upset about how he had put the pressure on her to go back to his place and hook up with him.

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“I’ve only been in one relationship my entire life and rarely dated,” she said. “After the many failed situationships I’ve found myself in, I realized I have a hard time with my worth and what I allow men to get away with.”

“Now that I’m learning how to maneuver through that, I feel like I just need reassurance that it’s okay and the right thing to do to not even bother with this guy anymore.”

So, she’s left wondering if it’s completely alright for her to ghost this guy after his behavior on their first date.

What do you think?

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