She’s Talking About How She Dated A Married Man Who Was Over Seven Years Younger Than Her
In modern relationships, conventions have evolved, and it seems that the boundaries have blurred more than ever.
However, the realm of dating married individuals still stands as a controversial territory filled with ethical dilemmas and societal taboos.
Even though these liaisons are morally questionable and come with many risks, people often find themselves drawn into such relationships.
The allure of dating someone married is driven by various complexities and, sometimes, genuine connection.
For some, the thrill of secrecy is what motivates them to enter those kinds of relationships. For others, it’s an escape from their own lives.
TikToker Lillian (@lillianblairrose) is talking about how she dated a married man this past summer. He was seven and a half years younger than her.
Before this guy, she hadn’t dated anyone for about a year and a half. At the time she met him, her dad had just passed away, so she was in a very vulnerable state and wasn’t completely herself.
Prior to meeting the guy, she was isolating herself from the world. She didn’t go out or hang out with friends.
She stumbled into the relationship unexpectedly, swept off her feet by the chemistry they shared. They started talking at the end of June and continued chatting online for two weeks.
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He added excitement to her life, and when she was with him, she had a lot of fun. He was also in the middle of a divorce, but he technically wasn’t in a relationship with anyone.
For their first date, he drove 35 minutes to pick her up and then turned around and drove about 25 minutes in the opposite direction to the arcade.
They stayed there for several hours, playing tons of video games. Afterward, they went back to her apartment and stayed up talking until five in the morning.
Although their first date had gone well, she learned her lesson from the experience. She will no longer date people who are fresh out of relationships or going through a divorce.
She wants somebody who has been single for a while, has gotten over their exes, and is ready for a real relationship.
Her story stirred up some controversy in the comments section, with several TikTok users criticizing her for dating a married man in the first place.
“I knew the setup would be how she’s unaccountable for her actions,” commented one user.
“Yeah, I know a married woman, and I’m very attracted to her. That’s messing around, and I just don’t mess around,” declared another.
“Don’t date anyone ‘going through a divorce.’ A lot of the time, they’re not. And a lot of the time, they decide to work things out with their S/O,” advised a third.
https://www.tiktok.com/@lillianblairrose/video/7330671255147826474?_r=1&_t=8jY9jbSWwgh&social_sharing=1
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