He Broke Up With His Girlfriend After Finding Out She Slept With His Coworker During Their First Month Of Dating While Making Him Wait To Hook Up With Her During The Same Time Period

kiuikson - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
kiuikson - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This man had been in a relationship with his girlfriend for about six months, and recently, he just landed a new job.

So, while he was getting acquainted with his new position and colleagues, he wound up hitting it off with a male coworker and becoming friends with the guy.

That’s why he eventually decided to invite his coworker over to his house to hang out. But his girlfriend was also there.

“We don’t officially live together,” he said, “But she spends a lot of time at my place.”

Anyway, that’s why she was there when his coworker arrived, and to his surprise, his coworker actually recognized his girlfriend.

This rubbed him the wrong way, too, so once his coworker eventually left, he decided to confront his girlfriend.

It was then that he found out his girlfriend actually slept with his coworker. The real kicker? She’d hooked up with the guy while they were already dating for one month.

To make matters even worse, his girlfriend had actually been making him “wait” to sleep with her during the same time period.

“She said that our relationship was gonna be special, and she wanted to wait,” he recalled.

kiuikson – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

As for his coworker, she swore that her hook-up with the guy was just a one-night stand.

After finding that out, though, he was still furious, and he immediately told his girlfriend to get out of his place.

“Because I knew I was gonna say things I couldn’t take back,” he admitted.

Then, once he had calmed down a few days later, he had a chance to think through the whole situation. That was when he ultimately decided to break up with her.

Nonetheless, she just kept trying to tell him that she “wanted more” with him and their relationship. She’s even claiming that he was “special.”

“But I told her that I feel like I’m not attractive to her, or at least not as much as others,” he vented.

“Basically, I said that I can’t be that special if she preferred to sleep with a one-night stand rather than me.”

Still, ever since calling it quits with his girlfriend, he can’t help but wonder if breaking up with her because she slept with another man while making him wait was really the wrong thing to do.

How would you feel if your partner did something like that? Did he do the right thing by breaking up with his girlfriend?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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Katharina Buczek graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in Journalism and a minor in Digital Arts. Specializing ... More about Katharina Buczek

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