He Really Loves His Girlfriend, But Now That He’s In A Fraternity, Hookup Culture Is Just Calling His Name
A 21-year-old guy and his 19-year-old girlfriend have been in a relationship for about 3 years now, and things are excellent between them.
He and his girlfriend did end up dating other people before they found one another, but they are each other’s “firsts” in pretty much every department.
His girlfriend treats him great, and she really inspires him to be the best version of himself. They’re honestly very compatible, and he has no complaints about his relationship with her.
“She goes above and beyond for me, I do the same for her, but it is not uncommon for her to make me delicious meals, massages, randomly clean, etc. she’s super feminine,” he explained.
“She is very beautiful inside and out, and I really love her personality. She has a big heart and is the sweetest person I know, hands down.”
“She is my #1 supporter, and if she knows I am overwhelmed by business, etc., she always helps me. We handle conflicts very well, and she’s super funny and fun to be around.”
He currently attends college, and he’s started to get more involved in what’s going on around campus.
He also wound up joining a fraternity, and this specifically made him stop to consider if the grass is greener on the other side.
Being part of a fraternity has exposed him to hookup culture, and he’s really interested in this uncharted territory.
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“I feel guilty for feeling this way, but I can’t deny that I also feel curious, especially since my girlfriend is the only person I have slept with,” he said.
“I don’t know how to push these feelings down, especially when I hang out with my friends and they’re talking about all these new girls etc.”
“But it is also confusing to me as I am really happy with my girlfriend…even mundane things with her are super enjoyable.”
He’s considering letting his girlfriend know that hookup culture seems great to him, and he really wants to explore hooking up with other girls, not dating them.
Do you think it’s silly for him to potentially throw out a perfectly good relationship in order to get out there and experiment like his fraternity brothers are doing?
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