His 29-Year-Old Fiancée Has The Energy Of A Retired Person, So That’s Making Him Question If He Should Leave Her

This 29-year-old man is currently engaged to a woman the same age as him, but he’s thinking it might be time to end their engagement and leave her for good.
He’s been with his fiancée for a decade, and she’s the very first real girlfriend that he ever had. His lack of experience in the dating department has caused him to be unaware of real problems in their relationship before.
He used to be incredibly lonely prior to his fiancée entering his life, and although he’s no longer lonely, he’s not exactly happy.
“As I’ve matured, I’ve realized that perhaps I’ve compromised too much to make this work at the risk of becoming lonely again, but at the cost of my own potential happiness,” he explained.
“2 years ago, we were very close to breaking up, but the pandemic changed that. At the time, I thought this was a good thing, but now I’m not so sure. In summary, the relationship currently “works” but feels mediocre.”
And what really contributed to him believing his relationship is mediocre comes down to the fact that his fiancée has the energy of a retired person, not someone in the prime of their life.
She acts more like someone twice her age, she never has the energy to do anything, and she also has a bad attitude most of the time.
She’s short with him, she’s always got a nasty look on her face, and she’s texting him every single day, stating that she doesn’t feel good.
She also suffers from chronic headaches, which impacts her ability to do things with him, and she has gained a lot of weight while also developing a hunch to her back.

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He doesn’t think that she makes the most out of her life, and everything going on with her makes it difficult to do what other people their age do.
If they go to events, they have to leave on the early side. Frequently, they skip going out altogether.
Every time he has gone on vacation with her, too, she has ruined it by wanting to remain in bed in their hotel instead of going out and about.
His fiancée was not like this at the beginning of their relationship, but everything has spiraled as the years wore on.
Right now, he wishes he could spend his money and time traveling the world, but she has no interest in doing that, and she won’t allow him to travel with his friends or by himself.
He has made an effort to talk to her about all of the things he doesn’t really like about her, and every time he brings something up, she just starts sobbing.
“Despite all of this, I do love her, I believe she’s made me a better, fuller person in many ways, and we do manage to have some good times together,” he said.
If you’re wondering why he hasn’t just up and left her, he has several reasons, starting with the fact that she’s currently pregnant.
He also is not sure if he should leave her because he doesn’t have a lot of friends, so he’ll be right back to feeling super lonely.
And his third reason for not really wanting to just leave is because they do live together well, and it will seem that he threw out years of being with her.
So, he’s stuck. He can’t imagine her being a good mom because she has no energy, and he’s wondering if he should try to get her medical help or get her into counseling.
What do you think he should do; try to push her to get help or leave?
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