Her Boyfriend Cheated On Her While On A Guy’s Golf Trip But Isn’t Even Trying To Save Their Relationship
This 24-year-old woman has been dating her boyfriend, who is 25, for seven long years. But recently, their relationship came crashing down after he went away on a trip and cheated on her.
Now, she claimed that even though their relationship had its ups and downs, she never once thought her boyfriend would be unfaithful. After all, they had been really happy lately.
Apparently, he is very close with her entire family, and she is very close-knit with his. She and her boyfriend even had a vacation booked for next month and had plans for their future.
“We have had seven years of memories and a future to come. I am broken,” she said.
The cheating occurred after her boyfriend went on a golf trip with some of his friends. And one night, while he was there, he reportedly told her that the hotel room was empty, no one else was there, and that he was just playing pool.
After he texted her sporadically, though, her boyfriend later stopped responding to her texts after a few hours. Then, in the morning, he just claimed that his phone had died.
Well, spoiler alert: that was far from what actually happened.
After the trip, she wound up finding texts on her boyfriend’s phone that revealed he had really been cheating.
It turned out that her boyfriend had met a 31-year-old woman that night. Then, sometime within 30 minutes of her conversation with her boyfriend, he managed to get the other woman’s number.
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He also started asking for the other woman’s hotel room number and told the lady to go to his room.
“He sent me a picture of him in his bed at 1:00 a.m., clearly waiting for the girls to arrive,” she recalled.
But the worst part was that her boyfriend didn’t just sleep with the other woman that night. Instead, when he was sober the following morning, her boyfriend slept with the other woman again. That’s why, for her, it is clear that her boyfriend made a choice– not just a mistake.
So, once she discovered those text messages this past Sunday night, she kicked her boyfriend out at 11:00 p.m. And he did not even reach out to her afterward.
She still needed closure, though, which was why they decided to meet up with her boyfriend on Tuesday. But to her complete surprise, he just kept claiming that he couldn’t be with her anymore due to what he did and had no intentions of even trying to fix their relationship.
So, while she stood there bawling her eyes out and venting about how her boyfriend had taken everything from her, he didn’t even really say anything! Meanwhile, one of her boyfriend’s guy friends who went on the trip also happened to cheat on their girlfriend. Yet, that guy was reportedly groveling in an attempt to get his girlfriend back and felt absolutely terrible about what had happened.
So, she cannot understand how or why her boyfriend’s emotions would change after he hurt her– the person he supposedly “loved” for seven years. On top of that, she has no idea why her boyfriend wouldn’t just try to fix their relationship even if he knew she would not forgive him.
“He’s telling everyone he’s sad, but I won’t ever take him back. He’s not even giving me the time of day to make my own decision,” she vented.
Why do you think her boyfriend didn’t even bother trying to get her back? Can you understand why that is even more hurtful for her? Does it seem like he wanted their relationship to end? How do you suggest she moves on now?
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