This 19-year-old girl recently went out on a first date with a guy, who is 21, just a few days ago. And for their date, they decided to go out to the city to grab some food.
But, while they were in the city, she realized that a homeless man had fallen out of his wheelchair right across the street from them.
So, she pointed out what had happened, and they both ran over to help pick up the man.
Then, after they finished helping, someone behind them started profusely thanking them for actually stepping in and doing something– because, apparently, everyone else in the vicinity had just been standing there and staring.
But the guy she went on a date with did not even bother responding to that. Instead, he just started going on a rant about how he needed hand sanitizer because the homeless man was “so freaking dirty.”
“Like, he kept saying it over and over again and whining about how dirty that man was and how gross homeless people are,” she revealed.
While her date was complaining, they were also still very close to the homeless man. So, the poor man likely heard all of the horrible things her date was saying.
And at that moment, she detailed how she just could not believe her ears.
“Like, I get it, he might not be the cleanest, but to publicly humiliate someone like that who is clearly struggling is just such an ick,” she explained.
“I feel like more of a man than him because I didn’t go out of my way to whine and complain about it. Like, just go and wash your hands.”
That’s why she ultimately decided to confront her date later on about the remarks he had made, asking him why he reacted like that.
By the end of their conversation, though, her date just claimed that he was “stating the truth.” Plus, he even said that he did not care at all what she thought about him because of it.
So, she believes that her date’s response told her everything she needed to know in case she was planning on pursuing a relationship with him.
“Number one is how he treats other people, and number two is how he would respond to things that bother me personally,” she concluded.
Still, ever since their date, she’s been left wondering whether viewing her date’s reaction to the homeless man as a “red flag” is justified or not.
What would you think if your date reacted that way after helping the man? Do you agree that her date’s reaction was a red flag? Would you have left after that?
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