Her Bad Date Started Out With Having To Sit In The Back Seat Of A Guy’s Car To Wait For A Boot To Be Taken Off, But Then When They Got Ice Cream, He Kept Saying He Couldn’t Believe She Ate The Whole Thing
Senses of humor can vary from person to person, but there is a difference between being funny and making a joke at another person or group’s expense. Have you ever been on a date with someone who tries to play off rude comments as a joke?
TikTok creator Bailey (@bailey.dee) shares her first and last dating app story that had her feeling awkward and uncomfortable.
She had just started college and was looking for a new way to meet people and step into the college-life dating scene. She decides to download a dating app to see how it goes.
She matches with someone, and immediately the guy is pretty direct about wanting to see her. Bailey agrees to a date, even though meeting someone off a dating app is pretty out of her comfort zone. Leading up to the date, she is super anxious but pushes herself not to bail on the guy.
The guy picks her up from her apartment and walks her out to his car. They immediately noticed that his car was booted!
“Immediately, he’s like so mad about this, and he’s like in the worst mood. He’s like, ‘…My dad is going to be so mad.’ And he like calls his dad before he calls the booting company, and he just like walks away and is on the phone with his dad for like 10 minutes while I’m just waiting for him by his car,” retells Bailey.
After getting off the phone with his dad, Bailey’s date calls the booting company to get things sorted with his car.
They are waiting in one of those parking garages that are open to the outside, and it starts to get cold.
So the guy suggests to Bailey that they should both get into the backseat of his car to warm up until the booting company shows up.
Irena Mila – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
“I have no idea why we couldn’t just like sit in the front of his car and talk and wait, but for whatever reason, we just like sit side by side in the back,” Bailey says.
Although they were making okay conversation, things just felt sort of awkward to Bailey, and she could tell at this point that she probably would not pursue another date with this guy.
Once the boot has been taken off of the car, they can finally start the actual date. Only spanning about an hour, they play some mini golf and pick up some ice cream.
While she thought the date itself wasn’t terrible, the guy’s next comment made Bailey feel so uncomfortable.
“When I finished my ice cream, and he didn’t finish his, he’s like, ‘I can’t believe you finished that like I can’t believe you ate all of that ice cream.’ And he just keeps making that joke over and over again, and I just like didn’t think it was very funny,” recalls Bailey.
Despite this, Bailey didn’t end the date there. Her date suggested that they go back to her apartment to watch a movie, and she agreed to the plan. One of her roommates was using the living room TV, so they headed into Bailey’s room to find something on Netflix.
“We’re sitting on my bed watching Good Burger, and he then he turns and is like clearly trying to kiss me, and it’s just like one of those situations where I felt like it would have been more awkward to dodge his kiss,” Bailey says.
She starts to realize that this guy is super into her already. In addition to kissing her, her date starts to tell her how great and beautiful she is.
Bailey feels pretty confused because they have only known each other for a couple of hours, and definitely does not feel the same way towards him already. She felt like the date with him was pretty mediocre and awkward.
Bailey reaches the point where she doesn’t want to be hanging out with this guy anymore and definitely doesn’t want him in her room any longer.
She gets up and tells him that she needs to take her car to her sister ASAP. He asks to join her, but she tells him that he should just go back to his apartment.
After he left that night, Bailey didn’t hear from him until a couple of days later. He asks her if she ended their date so abruptly because she wasn’t feeling him or their connection, and she replies honestly and tells him yes. He unadded her after that response.
“So I guess the only positive moral of that story is don’t be afraid to be selfish and put yourself first if you’re feeling anxious and uncomfortable for any reason. I feel like, as a society, we’re so obsessed with like being polite and not hurting someone’s feelings, but if someone is like making you uncomfortable, even if it’s not like anything crazy, it’s okay to offend them. You can put yourself first in that situation,” Bailey advises.
Do you have a similar dating story? If not, make sure you remember Bailey’s advice if you ever find yourself in a similar situation.
https://www.tiktok.com/@bailey.dee/video/7216181990737956139?_r=1&_t=8ckWbAKNJks
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