She Just Found A Message Her Husband Sent To His Old Girlfriend Apologizing For Everything, But She Thinks Her Husband Owes Her An Apology
This 30-year-old woman is married to her husband, who is 33, and they kind of ended up together in an interesting way.
She used to date her husband Sam back in high school, but then they broke up. Fast forward to her junior year of college, and she was really having a tough time.
She had just broken up with her college boyfriend, and she also was failing an entire semester’s worth of her classes.
Additionally, her mom and stepdad were in the middle of a divorce, which meant they were too preoccupied with their own struggles to try to help her.
She came home from college that summer, and she ended up running into Sam.
“Sam use to call me the love of his life, his future, his everything, but I was stupid and ended things, and when he started dating, I realized I wasn’t ready to move on,” she explained.
“Nothing I did could convince him to try again, so he found a new girlfriend, and I went to college.”
“Meeting up that summer, things weren’t bitter or anything. He had ghosted me before, so I was a little confused, but our talk went well, and I asked if we could be friends since I needed someone. He said sure. He told me right away he was still dating the same girl, and I said okay.”
A few days after her interaction with Sam, she ended up phoning him up because she was incredibly beside herself, and she was hoping he could provide her with some kind of comfort.
Andrey_Arkusha – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Well, Sam ended up not only comforting her but hooking up with her too. She never meant for that to happen; for Sam to cheat on his girlfriend with her.
Sam ended up walking off and saying they were completely over and done with after their little escapade.
“I got pregnant, and while I didn’t want to let him or anyone else know, my mom ended up telling him and his girlfriend, which led them to break up,” she said.
“Sam and I ended up together and now have a son.”
“We’re in couples counseling as I deep down know Sam doesn’t see me much like a wife, but more a roommate or co-parent. I do love him, and I know he likely won’t ever leave because of our son and guilt.”
It’s been 8 years since this all went down, and Sam’s relationship with his old girlfriend came to an end.
Not too long ago, she noticed on Sam’s phone that he had sent a message to his old girlfriend.
She has tried to check in on Sam’s old girlfriend ever so often, but it’s proved challenging for her, as his old girlfriend isn’t super active on social media.
The message that Sam had sent to his old girlfriend was very lengthy, and he had a lot to say in there.
“In the message, he wrote a long, and I mean long message, apologizing for all he had done, what a selfish boyfriend he was, he has carried the weight of his choice every day, and he was so happy to see how much she has done since their break up (her brother had committed suicide around the time we cheated),” she continued.
“I was frustrated at the message and confronted [him], asking where was my long apology for how much he’s put me through by not being a respectful partner.”
“Sam told me he was guilty for what we did to her, not anything our dumb choices did him or me. He thinks I’m being overdramatic getting upset. How can I get him to understand this is wrong?”
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