Her Boyfriend Just Revealed That He’s No Longer Attracted To Her Now That She Has An Eyepatch, And He Found A Mistress Already Who’s Half Her Age
This 45-year-old woman and her 57-year-old boyfriend have been dating for 5 years, and sadly, her boyfriend just revealed to her that he no longer is attracted to her.
The reason is that she recently had to undergo brain surgery, which resulted in the loss of one of her eyes.
She is wearing an eyepatch, and this is something she will have for the remainder of her life.
After her boyfriend pointed out to her that losing an eye makes her less attractive to him, he then informed her that he already found himself a mistress in her 20s.
She is in the middle of still recovering from her brain surgery, so it’s not like she can just up and leave her boyfriend.
She feels completely and utterly shocked that her boyfriend doesn’t find her attractive, especially since she was there by his side when he battled his own health issues, which did change his appearance significantly.
“Besides the 10 pounds I gained and the eyepatch, I look the same as I did when we started dating,” she explained.
“I’m a former model, but I wasn’t when we met. I did my best to find a man that I thought wasn’t with me solely for my looks (’cause I knew one day they would go).”
“The irony is I stood with him through chemo. He lost his hair, and then he gained 25 pounds, and I still made sure he felt desirable. And managed his business while he was sick.”
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She’s felt depressed ever since her boyfriend informed her of everything, and she’s angry at herself for allowing herself to feel this way.
Her surgery was only 2 months ago, but ever since, strangers have been coming up to her and complimenting her on how pretty she is, even with the eyepatch.
She does always say thank you, and she’s thinking she will be able to find a man one day who loves her for everything she is.
“But I just feel awful ’cause this one person who I’ve shared my life with looks at me with disgust. So I cry, and then I get mad at myself for crying,” she said.
“I keep thinking he is crazy, but that doesn’t stop the tears. So I guess I’m just asking for encouragement from people who are on the other side of leaving an unappreciative partner and now with a good one.”
“And really any encouragement. I know I’ll get to the other side. But right now, this stinks.”
What advice do you have for her?
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