She Slept With A Guy On The First Date, And It Broke Her Heart When He Ghosted Her Right After That
This 24-year-old girl recently went out on a date with a 27-year-old guy whom she met through a dating app.
They had started texting back and forth, and she felt a really great connection. They then agreed to meet up in real life for their date.
On their date, they both did have a lot to drink, but she says they were genuinely bonding. This guy was paying her a lot of compliments during their evening together, and he was showing a vulnerable side with her too.
He filled her in on some details about how awful his ex was to him, and he began crying while he told her about his past.
She did her best to make him feel better before changing the topic. Right after that, they hugged and even kissed one another.
This was actually really special for her because she has never before kissed a guy on a first date in her life.
“The guy described his type as cute, funny, and smart while looking into my eyes,” she explained.
“And that is literally me. Then he said yeah, basically you. He was my type too! He kept making plans for the next time we meet. He kept saying that we shall do this and that on our next date!”
He also held her hand during the night, and he even held onto her as they left the pub they had been at together.
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Their night was lovely, and he said he was happy to drop her off at her house since she could walk home from where they were.
But, then she invited him inside, and the next thing she knew, they were making out in her bedroom, and one thing led to another.
They fell asleep cuddling, and he had asked her before they passed out what she thought of him.
“Everything he had done and said on the date made me feel like this connection is going to go somewhere, and it’s definitely not just a one-night stand,” she said.
The following morning, he left, and she didn’t think to ask for his phone number or social media information since they had been talking through the dating app, and she had his contact information there.
She ended up getting preoccupied with work, but that night, she opened up the dating app and discovered that he had deleted his account.
“It broke my heart so badly I started crying,” she continued. “I didn’t know what to do ’cause I had no other means to connect with him.”
“It’s been 2 weeks since this happened, and I still can’t get over it. I do not understand what happened to him [or] exactly that he ghosted me.”
She does not buy that he only wanted to hook up with her, even if her friends are insisting that’s what happened.
He put so much feeling and emotion into their date that she can’t understand why he would go to those kinds of lengths just for physical purposes.
She does think that she found his Instagram account, and she even sent him a message saying he left his chain at her place.
He did not reply, so she has attempted to reach out to several people who went to the same college as him, but none of them have his information.
“They know that he exists but do not have his number,” she added. “I’m really getting restless about this now. I have tried to get over him, but I’m not able to.”
She really wants to get his number so she can call him and ask him for an explanation.
Do you think that’s a good idea?
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