He Read His Girlfriend’s Diary And Found Out She Cheated On Him With A Married Man Who Has Four Kids
This 33-year-old man has been dating his 30-year-old girlfriend for 12 years, but over the last two or three years, things have been tough for them.
His girlfriend has started to build a business with one of her male coworkers, and he has had some bad feelings about everything.
He felt that his girlfriend’s coworker seemed off. He’s spoken to his girlfriend multiple times to express his feelings about her coworker, and he even said he thought something romantic was going down between them.
His girlfriend brushed him off and said if he met her coworker, he would understand why she’s not interested in him like that.
Apparently, her coworker is 40-years-old, married, 300 pounds, and diabetic, so his girlfriend said that’s why she’s not into the guy.
“I met him, and he was nice, so I didn’t buy what I was being told but tried to move past my feelings and continue to try and work on things where I can between me and her,” he explained.
“The last year, we had very poor communication in resolving and addressing issues. Yesterday, I stayed home from work, and I looked in her journal/planner and found essentially a high school romance novel about how things are going with a coworker and her.”
“The wording is a touch vague and with no names, but I know it’s him. They share an office together, and she talks about him often enough in passing, and they hang out at concerts. There were lots of talks about love and passion, etc., in the journal.”
When he confronted his girlfriend about her diary and asked if she was cheating, his girlfriend responded with no before stating she wanted an open relationship.
BullRun – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
He told his girlfriend they were over, and it didn’t seem like she cared that much, though she said she did not want to lose him as a boyfriend or even as a friend.
They spent the next four or five hours discussing how to split up their life, and it was a pretty calm conversation.
It was surprisingly amicable splitting up with her, but throughout their discussion, his girlfriend refused to admit that she had been cheating with her married coworker, who does have four kids.
Eventually he insisted to her that her coworker had to be taking advantage of her, which only made her defensive.
“She thinks this is real and intense and full of passion, which it could be,” he said. “I think he is unhappy in his marriage and is enjoying the attention of a younger girl.”
Anyway, he took photos of his now ex-girlfriend’s diary for evidence, and he wants to show this to her coworker’s wife.
He was able to find this woman on social media, and he believes that if he goes forward with telling her that her husband is cheating, it could make splitting up with his ex harder, as they still need to sell their house.
What advice do you have for him?
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