This guy recently moved across the country. So, the day before he left, he figured that he should probably have “one last hoorah.”
That’s why he decided to reach out to a girl who he knew was into him in hopes of hooking up with her.
“By ‘into me,’ I mean physically attracted to me. We met by her coming up to me in a store and saying I was the hottest guy she’d ever seen,” he recalled.
Anyway, she agreed to see him, which is why he picked her up that night. Then, they slept together, and, according to him, it was really “incredible.” Apparently, the woman did everything she could to make him happy.
“I also let her know beforehand that this was my last night here, so I don’t think I led her on or anything,” he explained.
Then, the following morning, he woke up and hopped on his flight across the country. Plus, he decided to remain in contact with the woman for one week following their hookup “out of respect.”
Well, since then, the woman has expressed feeling very upset that he left. On top of that, she claimed that she felt very used by him.
“But I told her straight up this was my last night, so I don’t see how I’m at fault?” he asked.
Not to mention, he doesn’t think that he used her or that she used him. Rather, he thought that they both had a ton of fun together that night.
“And I feel like if she didn’t want to [sleep] with someone who would leave the next day, she shouldn’t have [slept with] me,” he vented.
Nonetheless, now that the woman is so upset with him, he can’t help but wonder if hooking up with her and leaving town the very next way was really just a jerky move.
If he made it clear that he was moving across the country the very next day, then is he at fault? Was it a good idea to have “one last hoorah” or not? What would you have done in his shoes?
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