She Believes Her Husband Is Embarrassed To Be Seen With Her Because He Won’t Take Her Anywhere
This 32-year-old woman has been with her husband, who is 35, for over 10 years. They also have kids together, with her giving birth to their most recent child back in February.
However, over the last year, she claimed that their relationship has seriously changed. And now, she believes their marriage might be the worst it has ever been.
It all began in 2022 when her husband started traveling to train for his job. At that point, he would go out every day with his coworkers– lying and swearing that there were no women present.
But, she found out from his coworkers’ social media posts that there were definitely other females there.
“And the going out part wasn’t an issue to me,” she clarified. “It was the fact that he was going out to bars and clubs.”
Apparently, she had spent most of their relationship actually begging her husband to bring her out to a club or bar. She simply wanted to experience the fun, too.
However, her husband always told her no and claimed he did not enjoy those types of places. So, they never went out together.
Then, things only got worse as time went on. One evening, while they were in the middle of an argument, someone texted her screenshots– which revealed that her husband had a Hinge account and had been searching for women when he went on a work trip.
And at that moment, she honestly did not know how to feel or respond. But, before she could do anything, she wound up finding out she was pregnant.
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Even after her husband got caught, though, he never changed anything. In fact, he still does not invite her anywhere or take her out. So, she feels like she is just the mother of his children– who takes care of the kids all of the time.
They are never even seen together around family, either. Well, that was until Easter– which she claimed still wound up being one of the worst days of her life.
While she was trying to get ready to head to a party at her in-laws, they got into a massive argument. And their fight didn’t just cause them to show up really late to the party, but her husband also proceeded to ignore her the entire time.
Rather than speaking to her at all, her husband just talked with his brother’s wife and hung out in the living room while she was left to deal with their kids by herself.
A few weeks after that, her husband’s boss also had a barbecue at their house– to which everyone was invited. So, after getting there at 5:00 p.m., her husband stayed out until 1:00 a.m.
He returned home really drunk, and honestly, she didn’t even have a problem with him staying out that late.
What really upset her, however, was how her drunk husband would not stop talking about how all of his coworkers had brought their spouses.
Then, he went on and on about how all of the spouses had been super cool and easy to get along with.
“Why didn’t he ask me to join? Why didn’t he try to invite me?” she asked herself.
“I don’t understand. We don’t go on dates. We don’t go anywhere. It’s just me and the kids.”
Mother’s Day last weekend was her final straw, too. Even on that special day, her husband could not be the least bit nice to her.
Apparently, they planned to go to another family party, which was themed. So, all of their outfits were ready, and she was excited to go. But, on the day of, things went sideways fast.
Her husband did not help out with the kids and just laid in bed all day! She did not get any gifts or flowers, either.
Her husband also flat-out told her that they would not be going to the party. So, she was forced to drop her oldest child off with his aunt so they could still go and enjoy the celebration.
“I ended up staying home, and it was such a miserable day. I couldn’t believe it,” she vented. “Not even because it was Mother’s Day could he be nice to me.”
So, she honestly cannot understand why her husband refuses to take her anywhere. And now, she’s been left wondering if it’s because he is just embarrassed to be seen with her.
Can you believe how her husband is treating her? Do you think she should remain in this relationship? Doesn’t she deserve more? How do you suggest she proceeds?
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