She Said Something Nasty To Her Friend After Learning That She Was Not Invited To Her Wedding
This twenty-seven-year-old woman and her friend have been best friends for ten years. They met online and, despite living halfway across the country from each other, have created a deep bond.
After her friend got engaged early last year, this woman was even the first person she called.
“We were both freaking out about it. She called me screaming and crying when it happened, and even told me I was the first person she thought to tell,” the woman explained.
Afterward, the woman was by-her-side throughout the entire wedding process just like most best friends are.
“Months went by, and, as she was planning the wedding, she asked me for advice since I helped plan another friend’s wedding and was the maid of honor,” the woman explained.
Everything appeared to be progressing normally– just two best friends bonding over an exciting life milestone. Well, that was until the woman realized she was not even invited to her best friend’s wedding.
The hints were subtle, and the woman did not even catch on until later.
First, her best friend told the woman she had placed the wedding invitations in the mail. After the woman said she could not wait to receive hers, her best friend responded, “LOL!”
“I didn’t think anything of it at the moment because we frequently use that as a conversation ender,” the woman explained.
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Then, after a couple of weeks passed, the woman mentioned that her invite never showed up. Her best friend responded with, “lol, keep waiting.”
“So, I did, but it still did not come a week later. Finally, she realized that I was actually expecting an invitation and said she did not understand why I would want to come. She said I do not know any of her family and that they are kind of racist anyway,” the woman said.
Understandably, she was dumbfounded.
“Up until this point, I was really excited to be there for her big day,” the woman said. She had planned to treat her best friend to various stress-relieving pre-wedding treats– like lunches and massages. Besides that, though, she has no idea why her friend would lead her on.
“I have multiple texts where I say how excited I am to meet up finally, and she always said ‘yes!’, ‘same!’ or some variation,” the woman explained.
After thinking about the situation, she did bring it up to her best friend.
“I’ll be honest; I became getting emotional. Then, she said I could fly out, but I could not go to the wedding. I don’t know what it was, but that really pissed me off,” the woman said.
She ended up telling her best friend off about a week ago and has not heard from her since. Now, she regrets cursing her out but is still lost on how to express her feelings.
“It might seem childish, but I was really looking forward to this. It just hurts that I thought she was excited for me to come meanwhile she really wasn’t,” the woman said.
Confused and upset, this woman has enlisted the Reddit community to help. Do you believe that she was in the wrong for expecting an invitation to her best friend’s wedding?
How would you have handled this situation?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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