She Just Found Out That Her Fiancé Was Still Married When She Started Seeing Him, And His Wife Was Also Pregnant Too
This 27-year-old woman met her 36-year-old fiancé through work back in 2019. They did start out as strictly friends, as she was aware that he had a wife.
A year after meeting him, he mentioned that he had gotten separated from his wife. Then the pandemic hit, and he claimed to have been stuck living in the same home as his then-ex-wife until the restrictions were done.
After the pandemic was over and they went back to the office, their relationship heated up, and they started dating.
Several months into their romance, her fiancé said he had sold his home, and his wife had moved somewhere else. He then began renting a home and asked her to move in with him too, and she did say yes.
“Our relationship was amazing, I’d never been so in love, and he seemed perfect,” she explained.
“We soon bought a house together, and in July last year, I discovered I was pregnant. It wasn’t planned, and whilst he almost seemed disappointed at first, he soon came around.”
“2 months later, he proposed. I thought I was the luckiest girl in the world. In January this year, I got a big fat dose of reality.”
One day, she heard her brother-in-law screaming at her fiancé on the phone, and she even heard her name come up in the conversation.
She was puzzled and hurt, so she sent a text to her brother-in-law’s wife to ask what the phone call had been all about.
Andrey_Arkusha – Stock.Adobe.com, illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Well, her brother-in-law’s wife then said that her brother-in-law had run into her fiancé’s ex-wife, and this woman told the truth about what had gone down.
Apparently, her fiancé was not separated from his ex-wife until well after he had begun dating her. And, to make it even worse, her fiancé’s ex-wife was pregnant back then too.
She was sick to her stomach upon learning that her fiancé had cheated on his ex-wife with her, and she demanded that he explain.
“He lied to me about being separated because he wanted to date me, when she got pregnant, he somehow convinced her to (terminate) and then broke up with her whilst she was recovering,” she said.
“He lied to his entire family, saying that they had decided amicably to separate, and even lied to them about when we started dating. His ex-wife had no idea about me until the conversation with my brother-in-law.”
“The whole scenario from her point of view was that the pregnancy, whilst poorly timed, was an extremely happy surprise for her. But he’d begged her to terminate with the promise that they could try again once they got their finances fixed. But just 2 weeks later, he suddenly ended things and confessed he never wanted children.”
When she did find out the truth about everything, she was 7 months pregnant herself. After the truth was revealed, her brother-in-law cut her and her fiancé out of his life.
Her brother-in-law said that he was concerned his own kids could somehow be “influenced” by people like them.
As for her own family, her mom and dad are not buying that she had no clue about her being a mistress, and that has really ruined her relationship with them.
“I know I should have left, but the fear of being a single mother made me stay,” she continued. “I have a 2-month-old baby now, and all my money is tied up in the house, so I have nowhere to go.”
“We were supposed to be getting married in a few months, but I’m dreading it. I can’t bear to even look at my fiancé anymore. Our entire relationship has been built on a disgusting lie at the expense of his ex, and I feel like I deserve this misery.”
“I feel so guilty, I’m the reason this woman’s life was ruined. I never would have gotten involved if I had known, I can’t believe how…naive I was.”
Do you think she should go through with the wedding?
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