She Told Her Mom To Not Volunteer To Help Take Care of Her Dad’s Affair Child, And Now Her Sister Is Calling Her Heartless
This young woman’s dad spent years cheating on her mom. While he was conducting his affair, he also let her down plenty of times as well.
Her dad would make plans with her, but if his mistress was suddenly free, he would drop their plans without saying anything.
When she finally learned the truth about her dad’s cheating, she was furious, but her little sister wanted to still have him in her life.
The truth did come out because her dad got his mistress pregnant, but her dad’s mistress ended up losing the baby.
Her dad went on to marry his mistress, and 2 years ago, her dad and his mistress had a little girl together.
She has never met this little girl, as she has kept her dad out of her life. Well, a couple of months back, her dad and his mistress passed away in a car accident that took the lives of 5 different people.
A social worker reached out to her and her little sister to see if one of them would be willing to take her dad’s baby in.
The social worker had tried to see if any older relatives wanted the baby, but nobody did. So, they were contacted next.
“My sister asked if we could raise her together,” she explained. “I said I was not getting involved and told the social worker I would not raise her. My sister, who is only 19, stepped up.”
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Her sister had to complete a background check, drop out of her college classes, and find a 2-bedroom apartment to live in in order to be fit to take this child in.
Her sister totally accomplished everything she had to in order to take custody of this little girl, but now her sister is really struggling.
So, her sister has since reached out to their mom, begging for help caring for the little girl since she’s really in over her head.
“She told mom if she loves her, she’ll help her, and she’ll start opening her heart up to her little sister who is part of her girls even if she hates our dad still,” she said.
“My sister laid on a guilt trip to her. Mom said she needed to think. So she called me and told me she didn’t want to do it, that she HATES the thought of having that child in her home and caring for her.”
“But she knows it will ruin her relationship with my sister if she doesn’t. I told her she shouldn’t do it. That she would not be a good fit for one, but she would also be miserable, and while my sister might not hate her, she could end up resenting them both. She agreed with me and told my sister she would not watch her.”
After her mom declined to help with the little girl, her sister turned around and called her, wanting to know if she was the reason why.
She pretended as if she had no clue what her sister was talking about, but her sister told her to stop lying.
Apparently, their mom was super close to agreeing, yet then said no out of the blue. Her sister called her a slew of terrible names before insisting she had no heart.
Her sister also said that one day, she’s planning on telling their “little sister” the truth about how she failed to help her and rejected her as well.
“I told her I owe the child nothing, and I would not apologize for telling Mom to do what she wants,” she continued.
“My sister then said I was cold hearted and cruel, and I don’t seem to care about her either. I told her I cannot pretend to [care] about the child dad created with his affair partner and that she would rather me stay away. She said it didn’t mean I needed to push Mom to refuse to help her either.”
She’s left wondering if it was wrong of her to tell their mom not to help out with this child since she really didn’t want to do it.
What do you think?
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